That is a gorgeous card! What a lovely 'butter wouldn't melt' picture…
God answered my prayers. Pic overload
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How about getting a compromise on using a crate inside? Otherwise, sounds like maybe your life style right now is not really ready for owning a dog. You risked him being gone again in order to spend time with your boyfriend, have to wonder about your commitment when you did that knowing high risk.
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Hi , just reading about Bart. He's a cute looking little dog and his traits certainly sound Basenji like.
Do be very careful about not letting him escape, they can be bolters and can run very fast. My first Basenji kept bolting out of the door and i had to chase him through the streets untill eventualy one day he ran under a car.
I was just on the point of suggesting crating him inside your bf's house, it's very difficult when other peoples attitudes are different from your own. Also other people just don't get it when you say Basenjis are different, we have had to stop people coming through our gate as they saunter through as if they have all the time in the world, they don't realise how quick the Basenjis are.
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Well here's what happened. I drove to Houston to spend some time with Eric and show Bart to my family. He met the two cats and sadly neither of them went to touch noses with him. I was disappointed in Roxi(the cat that usually stays with me in huntsville) though I'm sure Bart didnt help with his excited state. But only time will tell if she will get used to him. I hope so. Anyways He was being extra bad outside with the rabbits trying to nip their feet. I have to be outside any time he is to make sure he doesnt do harm to them. I wanted to see if Erics mom would at least be accommodating because he is so small and well behaved in the house for the most part lol. So i pulled out his crate and set it up in the dining room with his food and water and a toy. We left to go eat and when we came back I let him out to meet Lady. They love each other lady was so excited to have a friend she almost had a heart attack running around with him so much. Its so funny watching him play. Then his mom came home and i didnt even get a chance to ask about moving a crate inside. I asked her if she wanted to see him she said he was cute but as soon as she saw the crate she said oh no there will be no dogs in the house. Greatt didn't even get to explain.
I'm not sure how to handle this situation because the only other thing i can do with bart at Erics house at least for now is put him in his crate in the garage and that's just not fair to him. Either that or I cant spend anymore time with my boyfriend unless he comes to our house which he rarely does. . .
Hopefully I can talk his mom into something
Debra. Yes I guess i did not show enough commitment that night maybe I should find him a better and more suited home. -
You definitely can't take a chance with him, that's for sure. otherwise is just as well off as how you found him. if he gets out, he could so easily get hit by a car, attacked by a mean dog, or taken in by a kindly stranger who finds him. for the better part of an evening, you and your boyfriend could hang out outside with the dogs and keep an eye on them. if you go inside for anything, you'll have to crate him in the garage. it's not cruel. he may whine for a bit, but then he'll finally just go to sleep. keeping him safe and protected in his crate is definitely more suitable than leaving him outside in a yard that is so easy for him to escape from, so don't let yourself feel bad about crating him.
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Sometimes you have to make hard choices. Since you spend time with your BF and it is not his or your house, you have to make some tough decisions. And as far as the rabbits at your Mom's house, that could be a real problem. And keep in mind, he was not being bad… he was doing what comes natural. Dogs are hunters, rabbits are prey... dogs don't know that they are someones pet....
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Yes I guess i did not show enough commitment that night maybe I should find him a better and more suited home.
I have to say that I am a fierce advocate for animals, and I would not be being honest if I didn't suggest to you that it might be better to find this sweet dog a new home. In the future when you can make all the rules regarding fencing, where the dog sleeps, how many (and type) of other animals are around, and how much is spent for vet bill$ (and where that money is coming from), you will be in a better position to further research basenjis, find a great breeder and go into everything with eyes wide open.
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Bart is a little sweetheart. I have a golden rule if my dogs are not welcome you are also saying that my kids and I are not welcome. Tell the boyfriend to learn to come to your house. Good luck. Bart needs that special love and home you can do it just make some changes.
Rita Jesn
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@Rita:
Tell the boyfriend to learn to come to your house.
I second this.
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lol the boyfriend does need to come over once and awhile. My parents find it kind of off putting. But as far as being ready for a Basenji I felt i was. Just not one this young. He is still a puppy being only one year. Brat also felt I was ready after they came to my house to do the home check. They knew I had rabbits and I was very honest with everything. I thought that I could talk Erics mom into letting the dog in the house. The crate will just have to get its use, i guess it's a good thing i bought it lol. I was really expecting an older dog and being that the BRAT dogs have already been personality evaluated I was really going into this little man blindly. He is such a darling boy sometimes though and a great homework distraction LOL.
I guess I didn't factor in that I do spend a lot of my free time at my boyfriends. And luckily vet bills aren't a factor just yet plus the 40% employee discount is nice.I was thinking of trying a spray bottle with the rabbits and see if it helps. I'll just take it day by day. No calls about claiming him and no emails from my ad posted on craigslist.
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you can do this! just be flexible about your expectations. dogs spend a huge part of their day sleeping, anyway, so don't sweat it. take him out for some long walks with the b/f, hang out in the yard while the dogs have some good play time, and then put him in his crate after he is already tired. he will very soon see that this is the routine and will be fine with it. good luck and hang in there!
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Well, I'm wondering what's happening with Bart?
Psst: see user name….can't help myself....
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Not sure if this is a possibility, depending on yard or neighborhood, but could you and BF get a little tent and "camp out" in his backyard? Then you could have BART with you and enjoy the great outdoors and be with your BF. Air mattresses are very comfortable, especially when you have your dog in the tent with you.
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Update
Bart visited the Duck Park in town and had much fun but wished if he could only get a little closer too bad mom was worried about him having to explain to Dante how he got his butt kicked by a goose lol.One of my favorites from his first days that i forgot to put up
He kept trying to jump on a ledge with ducks. they couldnt see him though
turtleee
I had to get a picture of the wrinkles so yall could see lol
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Looking at the latest pics, Bart looks so like a Basenji, albeit a mismarked one. What makes me think that maybe he's not though is the pic of his paw, in a basenji the top two pads are joined at the botton, like a heart shape. Either way he's lovely and i do hope things work out for you.
You could try a spray bottle re your rabbits, i use one to keep mine of my cats, however as Pat has already said i would have serious doubts about whether this would work due to the very strong prey drive. Basenjis certainly see rabbits as prey and you would be devastated if Bart killed one of your rabbits.
Yesterday we were in a pet shop and Malaika was near to a cage of Gerbils, she was positively quivering with excitment and licking her lips
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oh yes i would be devastated also considering some of these rabbits prices vary from 50 to 100 dollars. That is why i must seriously think about what will i do if he can't at least stop nipping.
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yes, his new pics look verrrry basenji. maybe he is from a basenji mix and a pb basenji, so he is like 3/4 basenji?!?
anyway, here is a diagram of the paw:
you can see how the two middle 'toes' have pads that are connected at the bottom - not two separate pads.
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He really looks at least 90% basenji to me. especially the face.
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yes, his new pics look verrrry basenji. maybe he is from a basenji mix and a pb basenji, so he is like 3/4 basenji?!?
anyway, here is a diagram of the paw:
you can see how the two middle 'toes' have pads that are connected at the bottom - not two separate pads.
I never knew this!
Bart is a cutie pie.
You might try coating the area around the rabbits with Bitter Apple. Something that tastes nasty to make him think the rabbits taste nasty as well?
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^i didn't really know, either, and when i got suki i was afraid she deformed, so i got online to try and find out. lo and behold, it's normal and expected!
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as for the rabbits, can you post a pic of the setup to try and get more suggestions? maybe put some gates around the area, or raise the cages up higher - more like chest level? seems like there should be a pretty simple fix. -
Of course. Here is the pvc hutch me and my dad built. Bart can easily jump on the sides and scare the bunnies
A kind of closer picture showing how the cages hang on the pvc
And these are the hutches on the side of the house. A little higher but he learned to get away by getting as close to the house and nipping from underneath. I had to literally pull him through the poop to get him out from under there. The house is on the left (you can barely see the brown brick through the cage) And our 6ft new wooden fence is on the right
A fence could easily be added on the side of the house if we moved the end cage on the seesaws.
