I believe that regardless of where a basenji is going to live (and with other animals) the owner has to spend a fair bit of time researching the breed, visiting quality breeders and understanding that basenjis are not like other dogs. That said, they are incredibly wonderful dogs, but in order for everything to work, a perspective new owner needs to get a good idea of whether or not the mix in the family is going to work and if the energy of a basenji will be appreciated. So good for you for asking these questions. Others here will, I'm sure, give you some excellent advice. For sure you want a breeder who has all of their breeding stock tested for Fanconi, and preferably for hips, patellas, eyes… Please check the Basenji Club of America website. They have lists of approved breeders all over the United States. But remember, a good breeder will interview you and you will need to interview them too!