When you are dealing with something that an animal is afraid of, the best approach is to find his "comfort" distance from the thing that scares him. A busy street makes this a bit more difficult, as you have to find a way to give him that "distance". If you have a car, maybe transporting him to a less busy area might make a good start. Perhaps a side street, where he is comfortably away from busy traffic. You could then walk toward the busy street, pausing as soon as you see some sign of anxiety, and retracing your steps just little until he is in his "comfort zone" again. Gradually…...with the use of bribery and rewards......ask him to approach closer to the scary stuff. Liberally reward him for being there, then retreat. The idea is to not force, let him decide when he is ready. If he feels he can retreat at any time, he will have more confidence. This approach may take awhile, but is less likely to create a permanent aversion. (it works well with spooky horses).
My puppy wont let me sleep (and some more serious problems)
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I can't fail this semester because I have a puppy.
Maybe not the best time to get a puppy?
Puppies take LOTS of time.. also at night.. They just have to pee after a couple of hours of sleep..
I think it took me 4 - 6 weeks to build up the time Tillo slept through the night without the need to go to the bathroom. You have to try to wake up before he's going to cry to be left out. You let him pee outside (or where you say it is allowed) and then put him back in his crate or your bed. After a couple of days you wake him up a bit later.. etc..
Good luck with your puppy! Don't forget to post a pic..
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Danny you'll get through it.
The first couple of months are pure hell but it does get better.
I had the same problem. I am also in school and with having a puppy I didn't sleep much either. It drove me mad at times but after a few months they calm down and will rest longer at night.
One piece of advice…wear your puppy out. Since puppies love to nap during the day, when I would get home in the evening I would not let the little guy sleep until I went to bed. That way he would sleep longer. It did help -
Thanks for the comments guys. I just came back from the vet with my dog and it turns out one of his testicles has not descended and according to the vet it probably wont. So he's going to need a surgery when he's about 1 yr old to remove that testicle still inside. I'm still in tears as I type this, I don't know if I'm overreacting, apperantly they can live a healthy life even with this, but I feel terrible. I don't crate my dog because I wouldn't like to sleep in a cage locked up, so I guess there's the logic to me feeling like this.
Of course the dog has a health warranty that should cover this because its genetical, but a dog isn't like a TV that you return at the store… I've bonded with this puppy so much. I feel so bad right now, I'm praying so hard that his other testicle will descend, maybe its a basenji thing? I don't know...
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Umm, I personally think he is too young for a vet to tell this. He's nine weeks! They will go up and down for the next few months. Shadow did this off and on. Pat? Lisa? Robyn? Diana? Does anyone else have experience with this?
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It does seem a little odd that the vet can determine this at such a young age.
I don't know though. I am not a vet. I am sure Lisa or Pat will interject and offer some good advice.
I understand how you feel though…its tough especially when you love them so much. You don't want them to ever have to go through any sort of discomfort. Your doing everything you can right now....asking for advice/support. Good luck and please keep us posted on your little fur-babies progress. -
I hope this is true and he can have his 2 little buddies there
I'm feeling alot better than I was about half an hour ago, I was watching him play and stuff and either or, it's still him, I will still love and he's just a joy. His name is Rocky, I'll post some pics later.
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Hey Danny,
First of all. PR is one of my favorite vacation spots. What part are you from?
Way back in the day when I worked in vet clinics, we told people that testicles may not descend until up to 4 mos. I think it is too early. Either way is no biggie as long as you get him neutered.
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Really, as a pet he should be neutered at a year old, it will not make any difference. There can be complications if you do not have him neutered and he is cryptorchid.
By 8 eight weeks I have always been able to see two testicles descended but they are not always visible. What I mean by this is that by 8 weeks I have seen both descended into the scrotum usually when they are sleeping on their backs and relaxed but if I go to look for them they may not both be there because of excitement, temperature, etc.
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Hi Danny! Welcome to you and Rocky!
I love PR as well. I spent about 2 weeks there a few years ago and LOVED Flamenco beach on Culebra Island! We had an awesome camping spot right on the beach… fantastic!
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It's pretty hard to tell at the vets office at eight weeks… I could also only see them when he was sleeping.. One vet (I believe still a student..) told me with six months that she could only feel one... well.. there were definitely two
About the cryptorchid being a risk, I've read that it is a minor risk that doesn't way up to the surgery (removel of testicle from abdomen). Your pup will be fine both ways, with one or two. -
He is way to young for a Vet to be saying that… I know many Basenjis that clearly they had two at 4wks, only to have one disappear and not reappear until as late as 4 to 6 months... and remember Basenjis carry their testicles one in front of the other and it is very easy to "miss" one.... This is totally normal (one in front of the other) for a Basenji, not so other breeds that are usually side by side.
Have you talked to the breeder? Have there been problems in the bloodlines with and undesended testicles? Some pedigrees do have those problems.
And not to start a big debate (US vs the World on neuter), but I disagree that is is not a health concern with not removing a testical from the abdomen.. it is a big health risk for cancer and Testicular Torsion among other things.
And as Lisa said, by the time he is 1yr he should be neutered anyway unless you had plans on showing and breeding? But if it doesn't desend, then for certain he should not be bred and this is a DQ in the breed standard.
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And by the way, all dogs should be crate trained.. it becomes (if done right and excluding those few that have crate phobias (sp) ) … a safe haven for them.. and a happy place. Mine sleep just as well in a crate as in the bed. They were crate trained first....
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Thanks for the feedback people, well let's see…
I live in San Juan, in the Condado area... if you came to PR that's probably where you're hotel was, and that beach in Culebra is amazing.
The research that I've done, and the comments from people here all seem to indicate that 2 months its to early, I would not want to nutter my dog if both his testicles end up descending, I would like to breed in 2-3 years from now and even if I didn't, it would have to be an extreme case for me to go for that. However, I must do more research on health benefits or risks of neutered.
I have not talked to the breeder yet, but I sure intend to. Today my emotions were running a little high... or low, and I just knew it wasn't the time for that conversation.
Oh, I've decided to prepare the living room for the dog to sleep in. He just hates being left alone in the crate, if we are taking him somewhere in the car he's just fine. Right now he's over there sleeping, I just hope that at 4am he isn't scratching the door and crying for attention. And btw, when I first got my dog I let him sleep in my bed, but the bladder thing wasn't a problem, he wakes up does his thing and then calls back to get back on the bed, ONCE ON THE BED he starts biting me and trying to play, if it wasn't for that I'd be more than happy to have him sleep at my side.
Oh yea, and here's a pic of lil Rocky, he's the cutest thing.
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Oh, I hope you do your homework before you decide to breed your b.
To be done right, its a pretty big deal.
You are right, he is very cute…but not all b's should be bred.
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At 8 weeks he should be able to "hold it" for about 3 hours. My suggestion is to set a puppy pad in the bathroom. Set your alarm, get the pup up, carry him to the pad, let him go, and put him back into the kennel to go back to sleep. Wash rinse repeat every 3 hours.
I would start with the crating because it provides your b with a place that is his. And a safe place for when you are at class.
As a general rule, to determine how often your pup needs to go out take his age in months add one to it and that is the ammount of hours he can hold it.
For instance. Your pup is 2 months old so he should be able to hold himself for 3 hours.
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Has your pup or his Sire and Dam been DNA tested for Fanconi?
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Welcome Danny! Hope your little boy will be okay. I got a beagle puppy when I was in grad school and I was really tired for a few months. I didn't crate train at the time and I really regret it.
Hi Danny! Welcome to you and Rocky!
I love PR as well. I spent about 2 weeks there a few years ago and LOVED Flamenco beach on Culebra Island! We had an awesome camping spot right on the beach… fantastic!
It's such a small world. I just got back tonight from spending a week on Culebra! This is my fourth year going there and I run into very few people who even know it exists outside of PR. I'm going to have to post pictures in the off-topic section this weekend.
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Awww, he is beautiful!!!
I had a pug that only had one "little buddy" (love that!!) until about 4 months, then the other one just appeared one day.
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Wow, I guess it is a small world huh? Next time one of you guys/girls come to PR give me a shout. And yes by B has been fanconi tested. I feel alot better about by dog's thing now, even if it doesn't grow that guy is going to be with me for a long time (God willing). I use to have a beagle that lived for 10 years, I just turned 22 so it was really hard lossing a friend that I have had for almost half my life. As sad as it is, it has to happen and it was almost a year ago so I'm over it, even though I dream about him every now and then.
I got some really good news though! Tonight was my first night of full sleep since I got Rocky. I left him in the living room (which has been inspected to be puppy safe) he slept there untill 3am or something, then somehow he opened the door that divides the living room/rest of the house from the rooms and came scratching at my door, I opened it and left it opened. He begged a bit to go up in the bed but I just said no and then ignored him and he went to sleep under my bed. Of course I have to mention that I had to take to Panadol PM's to be at bed by 9pm, my dog goes to sleep like at 8 and I have to break my routine of going to bed at midnight.
And I mentioned I plan to breed, but this is really long term planning right here. First I'd have to get my degree (studying to be a teacher) get a nice house with alot of space for my dogs to run, and of course you can bet I'll do my homework if I start breeding.
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Danny, your puppy sounds like an angel!! I can only hope my girl will be so well behaved when she comes home tomorrow
I think you will do fine with him to be honest!
Good luck with your degree, how long do you have left til you are finished?
