He is beautiful! Thanks for sharing. We are on Basenji # 5 and have not had a brindle but hope to one day,
Cheers,
ariadne scott
My new brindle bundle of joy…
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I agree with you. It makes sense to do it that way, and I had thought to have her both in and out of the crate on the trip. But the breeder advised me to keep her in the crate for her safety, so that's what I did. We talked to her, played soft music and petted her through the crate, but it still backfired. Though one of her littermates flew out of the country in a crate, without being removed once, and is perfectly fine. Sadly, Ava is just a different dog. I wish I knew how to help her.
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One more thought– I am thinking to try Reiki on Ava. I have found a local practitioner through a holistic vet. Has anyone ever tried that with a B?
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Not Reiki, but I had acupuncture done on one of mine. It didn't cure the condition we were trying to fix, but I was amazed at how calm it made her. She was her normal "uptight at the vet" self until the needles went in, then she gradually relaxed and finally went right to sleep on the table. It was amazing! Always good to think outside the box. You'll find a solution.
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I truly believe and know you will get past this. With Oakley his "wisdom" came with age and at some point they kind of wake up to the way of the world. The ones that don't are usually a product of sad circumstance…which isn't your case.
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Thanks for the encouragement. I had hoped we could move beyond this and she could have a normal, happy puppyhood, but that is seeming increasingly unlikely. Day after day with no improvement is so draining. We'll try the behaviorist referral and see if there's anything more to be done. I'm not crazy about the idea of more meds, but at some point, I suppose that has to be considered. Actually, if she were a child, she'd already be on Ritalin, among other things, and probably in therapy, too. But, then, I guess seeing a behaviorist is therapy.
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I am trying to get a picture in my mind of what her behaviour is like, I mean when you are not trying to crate her. What does she do that is abnormal for a puppy, except go berserk in the crate? I know you said her housebreaking was going backwards, but again, does she just "go" everywhere with no notice, or does she do the usual puppy thing of playing, then sniffing around and relieving herself?
Are all your issues tied to not being able to confine her? Or is something else going on…..
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Yes, there's the normal bouncing off the walls puppy stuff, but it's more than that. She goes crazy in the crate every time– still diarrhea everywhere. She refuses to go potty outside. You can stay out there with her for 20 minutes, then she'll go within minutes of getting inside. She goes a lot-- several times an hour, all day long. No sniffing, no tells, so it's difficult to hustle her out in time. She goes several times during the night-- doesn't ask to go out and is content to wallow in it. No UTI, she held it for more than six hours at the vet, and she knows the "go potty" command. She was almost house trained-- very few accidents-- before she regressed. She can't stand closed doors-- she becomes very destructive trying to get out. She won't walk at all on a leash. She digs in and refuses to budge. I work on these things every day, but there is no improvement. The trainer said Ava is very dominant, has separation anxiety, is confinement-phobic and has compulsive behaviors (claws the walls, chews the carpet, bangs against the door). She does not like to be corrected and the trainer feels this will escalate. There are other things, but this gives you a picture.
I realize this may sound manageable, but I have no way to confine her, I can't walk her without dragging her and she won't house train. She's doing a lot of damage in my house. I have to work, and I have to leave the house sometimes. She can't always go with me and I'm running out of dog sitters.
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Oh boy. I think you need to change the channel, the sooner the better. This is just not working out for you. Would it be possible to place her with a trainer for a time? Obviously you need someone with a good reputation that you can trust, but maybe the only fix is to completely change her environment, basically start with a clean slate. Without seeing the pup and watching you interact it is very hard to give any advice, but what you have tried so far is not working. Certainly the frequency of her "bathroom breaks" is not normal. What is her feeding schedule? The picture you paint is of an animal in constant emotional distress…..
Unfortunately you can never be sure of the right decision until you see the results.
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I'm looking into a two-week off-site training/boarding. The behaviors are the same with a private trainer in my home, so I do feel it's important to change the environment and reboot her behavior. The crate phobia has been the same in other places, however. And the weather hasn't helped– it has rained or snowed almost constantly since I brought her home. The grass is wet and high and she just hates it. So warmer, drier weather may help. I have been successful with clicker training for basic commands.
She eats three times a day-- at 7, at 12 and at 5. She does not have to go to the bathroom right after she eats, however, like a lot of puppies. I take her out every hour, though she shouldn't have to go nearly that much. She drinks a ton of water. And she only pees a little each time. Sounds like a UTI or kidney issue, but we've checked for that. Trainer and vets all think it stems from the confinement phobia. It would be so much better if she could have freedom in the house without crating. Maybe when she's older...
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I'm looking into a two-week off-site training/boarding. The behaviors are the same with a private trainer in my home, so I do feel it's important to change the environment and reboot her behavior.
I think that is an excellent idea! My fingers are crossed that this all works out for you. Remember, it is always darkest before the dawn.
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Thanks so much! This has been unexpectedly trying, but hopefully, it will all turn out.
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I talked with our friends about their first boy, he was flown down and hated the crate because of the bad experience. He'd panic and have diarrhea as well. They said it took about 4-5 months of working with him, starting out with I think a minute and very gradually increasing the time for him to be ok. Then again, they are able to have at least one person home most of the time. They've offered to exchange email or maybe phone if you wanted to talk with them.
With Loki for weeks I never even shut the door. I tried to let him scream it out, but it made him fearful of the crate so I didn't try again. Tiny baby steps, beginning with eating from my hand crate door open to me giving him his food through the bars with the door still open just so it'd take longer. Eventually I progressed to closing the door but immediately opening it so he'd barely notice it was closed before he could come out again. I'd literally add seconds to the amount of time the door would be shut so that he wouldn't begin getting worked up. If he got worked up, he would regress and we'd have to go back a few steps. I think for him it took a good 6-8 months to get him to be fine while crated, but the first few months was very slow going. I couldn't even give him a Kong with the door closed because he'd be so anxious he'd ignore it. And his crate is a size larger than it should be (if you go by the "enough room to turn around") because he still does not do well with that small of a confined space.
I became quite tan with Loki. He was a stubborn little thing with potty training. I could be outside for an hour waiting for him to go, bring him in and he'd pee on the floor. At 6 months he held his bladder and bowels for nearly 12 hours because he simply refused to go in my mother's yard (he was leashed because she does not have a fence up). I'd have to stay outside until he went, however long that took, because I knew as soon as we came in, he'd pee!
On the advice of a trainer, I put away his food bowl and hand fed him throughout the day. He didn't get any treats until about 5-6 months old (brought him home at 8 weeks). It was sort of like a NILIF thing, he'd get food throughout the day by working for it. When he pottied outside, he got some kibble; voluntarily going near, and eventually in, his crate = loads of praise and kibble. I did not have a job at the time, so it was far easier than if I had had one. He was very headstrong and did not like not getting his way so this worked very well for us…he'd have to listen or do something good to get his food (he never went a day without getting all his food, I made sure he had plenty of opportunities). Even when I transitioned to using treats for training I still fed food by hand in crate because we were still working on that.
Ava sounds much worse off and it might be a very good idea to look into sending her somewhere to do some training. Some time apart might work out well for both of you. It's very hard to remain calm when things aren't going smoothly and that's where I struggled the most with Loki.
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It's very hard to remain calm when things aren't going smoothly and that's where I struggled the most with Loki.
Amen to that! There are times when you just want to grab the little miscreant by the throat…...but that tends to set the training back a tad!
Although, with an older dog I find getting angry sometimes results in discovering they knew how to do something you wanted all the time. I still remember blowing up at my last boy when he had done something bad. I often ask for doggy pushups in such circumstances…...sit, down, sit, down.......but this time I forcefully commanded him to "crawl", which we had been working on but which he hadn't been willing to perform, and lo and behold, he crawled like a trooper.......and of course I switched from being mad to praising him. After that he couldn't plead ignorance anymore, but it got him "out of the doghouse" at the time. Win/win in that situation.
Puppies are hard, because it is often difficult to ascertain whether the problem is fear or willfulness. Basenjis are certainly capable of temper tantrums! (and spite! I have seen too much to believe otherwise!)
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Thanks so much for all the advice and support, TMartin and eeeefarm. It helps tremendously to know that others have gone through this– and prevailed! I didn't realize that Loki's confinement and housetraining issues went on that long. I totally get the part about staying calm. I hold my breath, count to ten and slowly release. If I have to, I leave the room for a minute until I can return calm and centered. Thank goodness for all those years of yoga! But it is stressful.
We are working with a private trainer now-- a different one-- and I think this one is getting through a bit. We had a good session yesterday. Ava does seem to be going through another fear period (she was afraid of a tennis ball today!), so I have been proceeding slowly with the crate. I lock her in while she eats, and she's a little nervous with that, but okay. When she comes to the door and starts looking anxious, I go around to the back of the crate and handfeed her there. She's fine with that. When she relaxes, I'll add a little more to her bowl and repeat the process. We're up to 15 minutes, three times a day, which is a huge accomplishment for us. I only let her have water and bully sticks in the crate, too, so we probably net about an hour of crate time a day.
The breakdown in housetraining-- that's distressing. She pees at least once an hour. We played outside for an hour this afternoon. Right after, she peed three times inside-- just a wee bit at a time. We were yo yoing in and out all day. She always drinks a lot of water. And her urine is bright yellow. That can't be dehydration, so maybe vitamins? I would think her bladder might be small, except she held it almost all day at the vet's office-- twice! Ava is petite-- only 11.5 lbs at 17 weeks. That's below average for her age, but she's not thin, eats well and is healthy. She'll probably hit a growth spurt soon.
How much does Kaia weigh, TMartin? She's about a week older than Ava. And how's Kaia doing? Has she completely settled in? And thank you for the offer about your friends. It does sound like their boy had a similar experience to Ava and reacted much the same way. It's encouraging to know that they were able to get him past it, and it would be helpful to get their perspective. So thank you!
And, yes, eeeefarm, I agree that Bs throw temper tantrums-- and they pout. Spencer would turn his back on you and pretend like you didn't exist if his feelings got hurt. Once his favorite vet tech had to stick him twice for blood, and he gave her the cold shoulder for the rest of the visit. Basenjis are like toddlers with fur!
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my basenjis would always sit in their crate with their back to me if i was working someone else or had to walk a course without them. everyone else's dog would watch their mommy/daddy. Not my basenjis.
Oh, and really, 15 minutes x 3 - great, great start!!!!! Congrats.
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Pamela, I always wondered the same thing…how Oakley could hold it hen e wanted to but in the house he never wanted to! At two, aside from the destruction that's the reason I can't leave him free in the house. He will hold it (now) as long as he's in the crate...but if I left him out he would pee and poop in my kitchen...it's annoying to thisday
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Spencer would turn his back on you and pretend like you didn't exist if his feelings got hurt.
The first time we left my previous boy, Sunny, at a kennel, when we returned he did not greet us as expected. He was brought into the waiting room and instead of running to us, he turned his back and sat down. No mistaking that message!
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Yes his issues took that long, sometimes I wondered if he'd ever be crate trained; even just having the bedroom door closed or being in the car made him anxious at first.
Kaia at 18 weeks weighs in at 12.2 lbs. She's so little, but growing steadily and has finally, much to our delight, begun taking naps. She is thoroughly settled in and trying to convince Loki she is the boss. They bonded quicker than we expected and it cracks us up when they go from cuddly and grooming each other to bickering like toddlers. His tail is still her favorite chew toy…poor boy. We have the occasional pee accident...never on the floor, always on either their bed (now removed) or our bed! She won't give any indication she needs to go, she'll just suddenly squat and pee. Friday she did so great asking to go outside to potty, then Saturday she peed on the comforter! We've started taking her to the dog park and she's doing well, going up to big dogs though still a bit unsure of them, even tried initiating play with 2 dogs today. Loki was so much different in that area, loved dogs from the beginning including a 90+ lb German Shepherd he met at 9 weeks. She is incredibly food motivated and once she starts thinking is very smart, but it takes awhile for her to actually think instead of just trying to get the treat out of my hand.
And oh can they be funny when it comes to tantrums or spite. He wasn't happy once while still a puppy when I woke him to go potty...told him to go, the little smarty pants just looked me right in the eyes, didn't even bother to lean or anything and started peeing on the concrete slab without even going into the yard! That was the first and only time he's ever done that. And he'll ignore you too...he'll just stare straight ahead and eventually will just move his eyes slightly in your direction so you know he hears you, he just doesn't want to acknowledge you.
Great to hear about being able to be in the crate for that long 3x a day! That is definite improvement and I'm so glad she's improving with this new trainer.
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And he'll ignore you too…he'll just stare straight ahead and eventually will just move his eyes slightly in your direction so you know he hears you, he just doesn't want to acknowledge you.
Oh my gosh, Oakley is famous for doing this to me, daily...he totally ignores what I say and you can clearly tell he's thinking "ma, you're loud, stop talking...I just don't care"!!
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It's one of the things that makes it hard to tell if an older Basenji is getting deaf. Deciding whether they are ignoring you or actually don't hear you! Of course, food sorts out the confusion. When they don't respond to a sound that means food, deafness is setting in.
I am so happy to hear Ava is starting to progress. Baby steps, and don't be discouraged by setbacks. I find training often goes extremely slowly, then suddenly one morning they seem to "get it", and things speed up considerably.
