@ComicDom1:
Like Big Dawg said in one of his posts, it appears a person cannot make a post on this board without several of you jumping all over them. Its only seems when the majority of you are in agreement, that the posts the majority of you make fall into the category of non confrontational.
I withdrew from this chat board once before for the same reason. I am sure I will be seen as the confrontational one, once again, but I think its clear as day, who made assumptions and negative comments in regard to my post. What the real tragedy is, that instead of seeking more information to draw a more proper conclusion you assumed the worst.
Sometimes, esp. with the written word, it is not so much WHAT is said, but HOW it is said.
The following descriptions are not directed at anyone, nor meant to describe any people here. It's just things I've noticed in the many e-forums I belong to.
Perfectly nice people can come across as pompous asses, wonderfully kind people can come across as judgmental know-it-alls, passionate people come across as over-bearing, People with the desire to share what they are excited about come across as though they are trying to cram their ideas down every one else's throat, total jack-asses can come across as wonderful people.
If we all try to keep that in mind, and temper our initial response to things that are written and try to give the writer the benefit of the doubt, I think there will be fewer confrontational posts.
Remember, we are all here because we love this breed and want to A} Share what we learn and experience, and B} learn from those with more experience.
Kum-ba-ya and all that jazz….... :p
Or, I could be way wrong.