@nobarkus:
Where do you meet up? I don't get out to HMB much. Went to Funston on Saturday. There were a lot of Basenjis that went there in the 90s.
The meetup I'm thinking of is at Pt. Isabel, the last Sunday of every month at 11 AM. I'll send you the link. I've met a few other B's that don't go to the meetup and, I think, purposely stay away – maybe for fear of snark.
I've learned to ask other Basenji owners if their B's are okay with other B's. Once, I crept up behind a man with two B's, Electra and Buster. He saw Bowpi and looked really startled! He ran over to his female and swooped her right up, because she's apparently no good with other female B's -- other breeds, no problem.
With that incident in mind, the next time I saw another woman entering with two B's right at the entrance, I called out and asked if her Basenjis are good with other Basenjis. She told me no, and kept walking away. Okay... laugh That's fine. We ended up crossing paths coming the other way around, and the meeting was fine, probably because everyone had some chance to walk off some steam already. Sometimes the initial excitement of arriving at the park combined with meeting other B's isn't the best combo.
And finally, we've run into an older gentleman with two BRAT tri's, Katy and Rio. There was some excitement/vocalization at first, but I think Bowpi is so docile and non-confrontational, she manages to defuse other high-pressure B's. She was in a chasing mood that day, and she finally found another B to indulge her.
... Not to derail your thread, Fran, with my little anecdotes. My point is that sometimes it's a real delight to see lots of B's together, and sometimes it doesn't work out. But it's ALWAYS exciting to bump into another, because we all know how special they are.