Friendly, always.
And I am very happy that my husband not base his decision to marry on looks –it was my stunning personality that won him over. {I'm sure he would agree....but please, don't ask him. LOL}
I don't mind an "unattractive" dog -- believe me, I've had a few. Had one dog that people actually laughed at upon seeing, and that hurt my feelings cuz she was a beautiful dog to me.
But like I said, if I am seeking a particular breed, and buying from a breeder, I am going to hope for whole package.
That said, had Jazzy grown up to be the ugliest dog Bryan ever produced, she would still have my whole heart! My husband will tell you it is ridiculous how much I love that dog. {although, she is the first dog we've ever owned that he will admit he liked a lot from the get-go. She cracks him up}.
If I had to choose between lovely to look at or wonderful to spend time with, I'd go with personality every time.
I don't think I've ever seen an African in "real" life, only in pictures on the Internet. But it hasn't struck me that they are anything but beautiful.
Are they just not as "polished" looking?
BTW–I did look at the BRAT dogs when we first began our search, and I would have been happy to take one of those -- homely or otherwise--, but didn't/don't know enough about the breed, and the potential for temperment problems, esp with children and not knowing the dog's past, is what sent me looking for a breeder instead.