Thank you so much for your responses. It is baffling and heartbreaking. He can only open his mouth slightly. He stands at his bowl and tries to smack his mouth at the water, then he keeps circling around and trying it again and again. He is desperate for water and starving, despite what we are able to get down him through the syringe and with the IVs. It isn't enough. He has lost 20% of his body weight in the last four days. He is exhausted and starting to give up. I can feel it. My vet has written him off. It is Saturday now, and I am unlikely to find a neurologist or holistic vet that will see him today. I'm pretty sure he won't make it until Monday without drastic improvement. It's just breaking my heart that I can't help him.
I have been researching online for hours. I did find something called Masticatory Muscle Myositis. I'm going to speak to the vet about it this morning when I take him in for the IV. We discussed Lyme disease and tick-releated illnesses the first day, and I believe some test ruled that out. I'll have to ask again. I will probably take him to the animal hospital today for another opinion, since my vet seems to have already decided that he is 14 and it's his time. If he were in kidney failure, I would agree, but the poor dog is desperate to eat and drink. He just can't physically do it.
Thanks for all the support. It's so much more than I'm getting from my vet.