Cleopatra is 7 years old now. Her job is to press against me to keep me grounded and get me out of dark areas with people. She'll start licking to help me when I start stimming and get shaky. If the depression is bad she comes and sits near me and cries. Some days I can go without her but others she stays near me and goes where I go.
My Basenji was "that dog" today
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I tried Nala at our local doggy daycare once. When I arrived to pick her up they told me that she had a few "time outs" during her visit.
I then took her to a local trainer who does home boarding and training at her home for a hefty price. It was worth every penny. She knew all about what Andrea had to say above and had me bring her over so she could evaluate what I thought was "aggressive" behavior.
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I don't think this daycare handled the situation very well, to start off with it is her job to know about your Basenji, and how to handle them. I say she needs to study up on this breed to start with, and yes they like to be in charge, AND!!!!!! Take care and don't be embarassed, Zahara is a wonderful dog, I have seen her at the dog parks, no problem. I would definitely look elsewhere, and go and tell them about Basenjis and there dominance issues.
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The last trip my husband and i went on we left Sandie with the same person as usual and had to go back next morning to pick her up… she did fine with the boxer but the 2 little dogs were toys for her...(I too felt somewhat embarrased this is a customer of mine) She was dominating them standing over them putting her feet on top of them ... Nancy was scared that Sandie would hurt one of them. Sandie did the same to my sisters papillion, so she cant go visit there again, for a while anyways. Here at home she still tries that with the cats...1 will run from her, the other 2 stand thier ground...Ive also noticed she does that to my feet... sometimes i think its play, but when she continues it, I make her stop and sit.
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WOW! I didn't know Basenjis had dominance issues and issues with small dogs. I just thought my dogs were aggressive. People have asked about doggy play dates but I've declined as I'm not sure how my dogs will react. C3 is usually very defensive about other dogs & he actually nipped at my neighbor's dog (Yorkie) when he tried to be friendly & the yorkie was in his owners arms. SHOCK! Topaz will just follow what C3 does…oh brother!
Will I ever be able to go on vacation??
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the daycare I use also takes the time to introduce dogs to other dogs slowly, one a a time (first time is through a fence, second time is nose to nose, third time if all goes well is supervised play), and make note of interactions. so they don't put two dominant dogs together, resulting in issues.
Jessi where is this daycare??
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This might be nitpicky…but I really don't think 'dominance' is the right word here. If you think of it in terms of people interactions...if someone is an introvert, they love their family, but don't care to spend time with many other people, and they certainly don't like to be forced to interact with strangers. They can be overreactive to interacting with other people...and the very sensitive to the subtle communcation signals that humans use. That certainly doesn't mean they are trying to dominate the other person, honestly, they would rather not interact with them at all! If forced to interact, they might snap at someone who kept on pushing into their space or face....
IMO, basenjis (as a whole) are NOT dominant dogs.....most are somewhat to extremely introverted as adults. But what they really want is for other dogs to give them some space, and read their signals as well as other basenjis do!
Just rambling out loud ;)_
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jys1011 - it's in massachusetts.
andrea, good clarification! (not nitpicky!).
with small dogs, it's not 'dominance', it's more like an overactive-prey drive, at least, that's how it is w/ my dog. basically anything small & furry (except HIS own 2 cats) = toy. a toy to be jumped on, squashed, chased, smacked around, and ultimately ends up in his mouth.
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I whole heartedly agree Andrea. My obedience instructor refers to my basenjis and her own border terrier as "reactive". They do not like rude dogs in their space and react to having that personal space invaded. Her border terrier actually gets along pretty well with my basenjis because they all respect each others' need for space.
I will again put in a plug for The Language of Dogs DVD, it gives some good examples of what polite dog language is and the cues dogs give each other to say "back off" or "please leave me alone" and how they say "play with me" or "come closer"
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This might be nitpicky…but I really don't think 'dominance' is the right word here. If you think of it in terms of people interactions...if someone is an introvert, they love their family, but don't care to spend time with many other people, and they certainly don't like to be forced to interact with strangers. They can be overreactive to interacting with other people...and the very sensitive to the subtle communcation signals that humans use. That certainly doesn't mean they are trying to dominate the other person, honestly, they would rather not interact with them at all! If forced to interact, they might snap at someone who kept on pushing into their space or face....
IMO, basenjis (as a whole) are NOT dominant dogs.....most are somewhat to extremely introverted as adults. But what they really want is for other dogs to give them some space, and read their signals as well as other basenjis do!
Just rambling out loud ;)_
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I was trying really hard to come up with this response – and then you did it for me. Quoting the whole thing so that it will be on page 2, as well. :)_ -
This morning I put an emergency call in to the really good doggie day care that I use to take Chase to when it was just him. Zahra has been there once so I know that she was able to go there. The place is wonderful, it is a farm and they live for the dogs there, they have a few pastures that are fenced in with the dog friendly fencing and they run in groups and play.
I told them about Zahra's incident yesterday so they gave me a report card when I picked her up, it read as follows:
Your dog socialized with other dogs: Very Good
At snack time your dog ate her snakc: Yes
At rest time your dog: Barked continuously (that part was a check block, they should have crossed out the word bark and put Baroooooo) but soon settled down for a quick nap
Overall your dog's behavior was: ExcellentWhen I picked her up the girl who brought her up told me that Zahra renewed her liking in the breed, she had been biten by a Basenji at the Pet Hotel (This place also has an amazing pet hotel) and had been a little hesitant because she had not seen another one besides that Basenji. Zahra was a complete sweetheart and wanted to be petted and followed her around.
Thank goodness today was a better day, I knew that my Zahra was not "aggressive" you just have to know how to deal with a Basenji. I am curious how much running they did at the other day care yesterday, at this place they run all day and come home exhausted. In fact they are both passed out on the couch behind me!
The only bummer about this place is that it is $42.00 for both of them for the day. I can do a package deal and it would be a little cheaper and I know it would be worth it because they are in a good spot. With my husband away for a while this is such a treat for me because they are getting extra attention and I am getting a night off from tiring them out!
Thanks for listening guys!
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In the last few days, I have been able to experience Basenji-to-dog interaction as a friend who has a golden is staying with me. Sunny, the golden, is happy go lucky and doesn't seem to figure out that my Joey needs his space. She is always in his face and doesn't remember the "gentle reminders" (e.g. snaps!) that Joey gives her. The comment about Bs not liking rude dogs is, I think, an appropriate description. Interestingly, when Sunny was put in her crate, he settled in right next to her crate with no problems. I did not scold Joey for snapping because this is his house and she is a "visitor" for the first time. Did I do the right thing?
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In the last few days, I have been able to experience Basenji-to-dog interaction as a friend who has a golden is staying with me. Sunny, the golden, is happy go lucky and doesn't seem to figure out that my Joey needs his space. She is always in his face and doesn't remember the "gentle reminders" (e.g. snaps!) that Joey gives her. The comment about Bs not liking rude dogs is, I think, an appropriate description. Interestingly, when Sunny was put in her crate, he settled in right next to her crate with no problems. I did not scold Joey for snapping because this is his house and she is a "visitor" for the first time. Did I do the right thing?
IMO, I think Joey is just letting Sunny know, hey this is my house and these are the rules. A growl or grumble is just Basenji speak to let Sunny know who lives there and who's visiting.
I think you did the right thing.:)
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As usual, Andrea great perspective!! I might have to communicate this to my trainer as well who Topaz is not quite fond of interacting with
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Ok please send me the names & locations of these doggy day care/hotels??!!
We would not mind at all having to travel for a great place to leaver our pets on future vacations. The doggy farm sounds incredible & looks like smart people running the place too.
Lots to learn on Basenjis…this place is chocked full of info!
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I also think you did the right thing. One problem with scolding for growling, or snapping, is that dogs will learn to go straight to an attack if they are not allowed to give the first level of warning (usually a growl). I made this mistake with one our basenjis when we were starting out. I reprimanded her for giving a warning growl, and it didn't take very long before she went straight to a silent attack. Luckily, when I stopped reprimanding her, and started managing the situation, she went back to warning with a growl.
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I take Hollie to doggie day care about once a week. She has only been going for about six weeks, but she seems to really enjoy the place. I ALWAYS ask when picking her up if she was a good girl, and so far all reports are positive. Even though she is a mix b, she still wants to be alpha and plays a little rough. She tends to play as rough with small dogs as the big ones, so I try to watch out for that at the park. After reading these posts I feel fortunate to be able to take her to day care. Her day care introduces the new dogs slowly and keeps a spray bottle filled with water handy (I've seen this used with cats, makes sense if would work with dogs too) to deter any issues. Glad to see the info regarding the growl first versus the silent attack. I will quick hushing Hollie for growling now, thanks!
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He usually put his hackles up when he meets a strange dog but if nobody reacts to it he is fine. It seems to be out of defense more than dominance. So far he has never shown aggression towards any dogs accept a Brindle Basenji he encountered ringside. The Brindle got aggressive and Tune got really aggressive back at him. luckily we both had control and left each others vacinity.
He saw that same dog at a different show a month later and it was imediate recognition and aggression towards him. He remembered that dog.Other than that incident, he has been pretty good about getting along with other dogs.
He does has some issues with my male pomeranian. He seems to think the pom is fair game when he is coming in from outside on his way to his crate. A simple sound from my lips, posture, etc is enough to detour him from acting on his prey drive. It is strange though because he can be out in the yard with him and doesn't bother him. Maybe he just thinks he has to defend his territory from such an inferior little male. LOL He never bothers the female pom.
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What are hackles?? And how do you know if they're up??
Sorry for the dumb questions but I hear this all the time & I look at my dog & I just don't see it! I feel like "Rachel" from Friends who couldn't see the baby in an ultra sound LOL!
