@curlytails:
Interestingly enough, it was a basenji owner that first told me about ways to register your pet as a service dog, permitting them privileges like accompanying you on a plane… She had it in mind primarily for the ease of transporting pets more easily (she let us in on this 'secret' after we told her our costly/intensive process of transporting our shiba when we moved back to the US from overseas). I don't think she meant to gloat or game the system for extra privileges like priority service in a grocery store queue (which I've never seen happen... I didn't know this was something that the disabled were entitled to, though I imagine people offer out of courtesy?). Anyway, I think this basenji owner meant to inform us of an alternative option, if we really wanted to travel with our pets.
That said, I wouldn't bat an eye or think any less of a person who wanted to slip through the cracks with their "service" dog for the purpose of traveling. Not only did my partner and I move overseas with our dog, we also had to drive across the country when moving from our parents' homes in Michigan here to California. It was a pain in the ass. It was not always easy to find affordable, dog-friendly lodging, especially since we weren't set up for camping. I think in a more overall humane environment, traveling with your pets should be easier. Well-behaved pets should be an integral part of daily lives, and it'd be easier if we didn't have to sneak around a system that discourages their integration. I think there are certain places that pets shouldn't ever need to go to, like restaurants, but when I see dogs that I KNOW would be better behaved than most children on planes, it DOES make me wonder why we some people look down so severely on extra allowances for pets while those who complain about rambunctious children are branded as curmudgeons...
Well, I guess I look at it as the same way I look at handicapped parking spaces…I may have a reason I want to use the closer spot, maybe I actually have a pain or injury that is not a disability; I may be 7 months pregnant with twins; it may be the only parking spot left in the lot...but I still don't use it because I am not legally disabled! I don't like flying my dogs under a plane any more than anybody else...it scares the h@!! out of me when I have to do it, but I am not going to lie and say they are service dogs.
I agree with your sentiment that it would be great if our society was more accomodating to well behaved pets, but sadly we don't have enough responsible owners around to make that dream a reality. Too many bad apples spoil the bunch