Basenjis are wonderful, loving, caring dogs…. but they are ALSO crafty, combined with enough cleverness that they WILL outsmart you! I stumbled into this breed 7 years ago when I brought my Lucy home. Sadly, she died in April, but not without making such a warm imprint on our hearts.
Someone said that the pup is a "blank slate", and that is not altogether true. They will let you THINK that they listen; but the caveat is .... "if they want to". My new little Lola is learning the rules of our house, and does listen- she sits down and lays for treats; but yesterday, she managed to get outside. We went on a 45 minute escapade, where she chased every squirrel she saw, and finally, she befriended another pup. I tried the "running away from her" trick, and the "TREATS" command, but with no luck. (I only got her back because she went in the pup's house and we closed the door. :)). Using strict commands of "NO!" and whacking Lola on her behind would have done nothing positive at that point; it would just put fear in her little soul. So, I loved her and hugged her, and put her back on the leash, and she politely walked home- not one little yank.
Right now, Lola is cuddling up next to me, licking her paws like a kitty, and if she could purr, she would. We are working on getting her to respond better to "TREATS!", but that takes time, discipline, and patience.
There are unique traits for basenjis, but for me, those are the qualities that endear them to my heart. Your little boy will love you, and cuddle with you, and I wouldn't worry about the nightmare stories right now. I've never had any of my furniture eaten, but Lola is curious enough to see what's in the bathroom trashcan. (Lesson to me: don't put anything too nasty in that trashcan, or if I do, make sure that door is closed!).
In a worst case scenario, if you adopt this little Tike and then realize you made a mistake, well, there are many of us that will open our homes to him.
**The emotional rewards are so much greater than the bagful of "What Ifs".
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Good luck!