Helena, we still have a long way to go with Kwame but i feel more relaxed about him now. The support from people has helped along with the advice. It was such a relief not to go to classes with him on saturday, i felt like a load had been lifted off my shoulders. I guess i felt we should keep going because Malaika has done so well with them. It took a while to become apparent that the enviroment was wrong for him.
Kwame and Malaika do try to avoid having the leaders on and occasionaly on the walk will try to wipe them off on our legs 😉 however i feel they are worth persevering with as the effect is so dramatic and our walks are transformed.
I am keeping the harness in mind though if neccasary, it's good to know there are options.
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Oh yes the companion thing is probably the biggest issue - I have my name in for the next one that comes available.
I might try my vet in the meantime - thanks for that idea.You might want to "borrow" a dog for awhile to see if it'll work. You may make the problem worse if the new dog also has separation anxiety. Even if it doesn't have SA, it may not help Luny's SA.
Since Magnum suffers from SA (which has gone from moderate to very mild), I've learned a lot about the disorder. Magnum suffers from "I don't like being alone" SA, not "I need my mommy" SA. I had a dobie years ago who had the "I need my mommy" SA and having a companion made no difference at all. He was only comfortable if I was around.
Whatever your path, I wish you and Luny the best of luck. Any type of SA is a tough issue to deal with.
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That is what I was thinking, does Sal have a B girl around that you could "borrow"?
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I was off work all last week and had relatives staying here too so I thought I'd better ease Luny back into my work routine.
The last two days I went to work for half days and brought reports and things to work at home in the afternoon – I thought it best to ease him back into my work routine. I left Luny loose in part of the house (kitchen, den, bedroom) with several toys and a couple of treat-filled kongs and have a DAP dispenser in the bedroom where his bed is. But when I came home, it was clear his SA is still going strong. He mangled the blinds over the door (I completely forgot about that set) and chewed on the handle, tore up a new sweatshirt, and pulled the lamp off my dresser and chomped on the lamp shade, in addition to peeing and pooping (luckily not on the carpet or wood floor).
So far the damage has still been relatively "minimal" but the lamp has me worried that his SA destruction is going to escalate maybe? I sure hope not.
I also talked with Sally about letting me know if another dog becomes available and have my name in with the local rescue group.
In the meantime, I guess I will have to go back to crating him when I go back to full days away next week. But when he realizes that I'm getting ready for work (I suppose he can tell by the clothes) he goes and hides in the farthest corner. I sure don't want him to become even more whacko but I am getting "rather concerned".
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Regarding the hiding…Ruby used to do that when she was "an only child". So to overcome that, I used a really high value treat (in my case, cheese). I use cheese for training (and basenji escape recoveries :rolleyes:), so they get it sparingly. But in the morning before I'd leave for work, I would pull the cheese out and have the lead in my hand. Ruby would come to me and sit, I'd put the lead on and then reward her with the cheese. She knew what was going to happen, but wanted the cheese so bad, that she would come anyway. And one other thing is I never took a step toward her, I made her come right next to me.
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Still dealing with this issue (I know it can take a long time to work out sometimes) and have been working with a behavior trainer on Luny's anxiety - some things in my behavior to work on too. We are working on changing one little thing at a time (teaches me patience too).
But always glad to have other expert opinions.
With respect to his going into hiding in the corner before I leave – Renaultf1, do you use the lead to get your Ruby INTO her kennel or just to get her out of the corner? You're not "dragging" her out of the corner are you? I have tried to show him the frozen bone or whatever the day's treat is, to give him some idea what awaits him in the kennel but it still is a "struggle". -
Still dealing with this issue (I know it can take a long time to work out sometimes) and have been working with a behavior trainer on Luny's anxiety - some things in my behavior to work on too. We are working on changing one little thing at a time (teaches me patience too).
But always glad to have other expert opinions.
With respect to his going into hiding in the corner before I leave – Renaultf1, do you use the lead to get your Ruby INTO her kennel or just to get her out of the corner? You're not "dragging" her out of the corner are you? I have tried to show him the frozen bone or whatever the day's treat is, to give him some idea what awaits him in the kennel but it still is a "struggle".No…I never had to drag her out. I would take the cheese out and she would come to me, sit & I would put the lead on. Without the cheese, she would run from corner to corner and I couldn't catch her. Plus I didn't want to chase her as I thought it just might make her more anxious. Once the lead was on, she would walk fine upstairs...never tried to go in the opposite direction. Once in the room, I would pick her up, take the lead off, and gently put her in the crate. There were plenty of good things waiting for her in her crate...kong, marrow bone, biscuits.
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Okay thanks - just wanted to clarify.
A special treat just for going to the kennel should work I think.
Mixing up his morning routine seems to be helpful too (but hard sometimes since I don't always have extra time before I leave for work) . -
I would look into a DAP collar to try to calm the little guy.
Lately we have been taking our B's for long walks and it really tires them out so they are not as destructive
I've used Rescue Remedy to no avail. Chance used to get himself so worked up when traveling he would puke. I gave Rescue Remedy a try and it really did not work. We went through a real tough time getting him used to car rides. After time (and many trips to the cleaners to get the seats cleaned) he is used to it. He still worries all the time though. He just has one of those types of personalities. After we introduced a second B, he has calmed down (a little). He still paces and gets flustered anytime we leave but at least he has a friend to keep him company. -
I'm checking into a second B and have two leads for young females. We'll see how that goes (the last thing I need is two lunatics :D).
I will also continue working with the behavior trainer and the crate treats. A DAP diffuser is in the room with the crate and I also use the rescue remedy - I know it's not easy to tell if they are working or not until you take them off, but no harm in using them anyway.
Thanks for all the tips. Putting an older dog (Luny's 10) in a completely new situation is a tough thing. Patience patience (I'm working on that too - I look at it as a good learning experience). -
Re car rides, this is going to sound odd, but it does work for me and my 2 dogs.
Even if you have walked your dogs before a car trip, I find the excitement of the "get into the car" and going makes there guts act up.
So, here is what we do. We take the dogs a lot on vacation when we go by car.
We walk the dogs in the am, feed and water.
Get them into the car.
Drive about 2 miles and stop and let them out to walk.
Both always pee and poo when we stop.
Once back in the car, they settle and are quiet.
About a hr or so into the ride, they start to get "ACTIVE" again…we stop at a rest area, they go, and then they sleep the rest of the way.
Could be the excitement of leaving home, the motion of the car or whatever, but these stops, even tho you want to get going...make the trip much easier on all involved.
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Re car rides, this is going to sound odd, but it does work for me and my 2 dogs.
Even if you have walked your dogs before a car trip, I find the excitement of the "get into the car" and going makes there guts act up.
So, here is what we do. We take the dogs a lot on vacation when we go by car.
We walk the dogs in the am, feed and water.
Get them into the car.
Drive about 2 miles and stop and let them out to walk.
Both always pee and poo when we stop.
Once back in the car, they settle and are quiet.
About a hr or so into the ride, they start to get "ACTIVE" again…we stop at a rest area, they go, and then they sleep the rest of the way.
Could be the excitement of leaving home, the motion of the car or whatever, but these stops, even tho you want to get going...make the trip much easier on all involved.
Give it a try. All you can lose is a bit of time...Sharron…I've had friends use that method as well...so I think you (and them) are on to something.
Wizard...It is a tough road, separation anxiety. I never had much success with the DAP - spray or plug-in...and I used both for about half a year. I finally gave up on it. Although, my vet and the pet store I bought it at said they knew of people that had had success with it.
Good for you for working with a behaviorist...they definitely will have better ideas about things to try. The second beastie was the golden ticket for Ruby though...and seriously, I've found that 2 b's are so much easier than one. So much so that I'm thinking of adding another either this year or next...and for that I might need my head examined.
