@Marie:
OK, so I have a 14 wk old girl who is absolutely terrified of walking in the grass to go potty. I am trying to get her used to it, but it hasnt been going well so far.
I think this problem stems from the fact that the guy I got her from would simply let her go to the potty on his cement outdoor porch or the wood floor in a certain part of his house. Problem, right? I got her at 13 weeks, so she had pretty much formed that pattern by the time I started trying to get her to go outside.
She is already crate trained, but as much as I take her outside after meals (tothe same spot every time), after waking up, after play, etc, she is still too terrified of the grass to think about anything other than how scared she is of it. Potty never crosses her mind. As of now, she's been holding it for almost 8 hours, and I feel bad that a puppy her size and age should have to deal with that. She acts like she has to go, so I pick her up and take her outside as soon as I see the signs, and she just stares at the grass and tries to walk back toward my door. We'll stand out there for 15 or 20 mins, and no luck; I've already done this four times over the past few hours, too. She has eaten and had plenty to drink, so I assume that she must reeeally have to go.
I refuse to let her go on the sidewalks and driveways.
Any suggestions as to how I should show her that outside (and particularly the grass) are great for potty needs?
I know that some are going to disagree with post but here goes. First I would take the puppy to where you want her to go. Since she is so young, I would do this every couple of hours. I personally do not give my dog a choice about going on the grass. Roo was taken on the grass from the time he was 8 weeks old whether he wanted to or not. I just took charge of the situation and I have absolutely no problem now. I do not think its unusual that your puppy is attempting to hold it to avoid going outside in the grass. Our dog started to do something similar to this when he knew it was going to rain. It never ceases to amaze me how much animals can sense about things in advance that we cannot. Of course he held it as long as he could but eventually went outside the wet grass. We also would always wipe Roo's feet after getting off wet grass and put an old towel down just inside the door that he could walk and sit on as we dried his feet and took off his leash.
Another thing you can do is when she pees on another surface like the wood floor or cement, you can clean it up with a paper towel and then go rub it all over the part of the yard or spot you want her to go in. She will get the message after you do this a few times.
Miranda and I have also found a spray called Simple Solution Home Stain and Oder remover at our local Pet Smart. This spray when used on the Wood Floor and Cement porch will help to discourage her from going potty there again.
Although Roo swims, he still does not like wet grass. So once again I took charge of the situation and did not give him a choice. Once we are on the grass he will either get comfortable or hurry up and go so he can get off of it. We always praise him when he goes on the grass.
We are now in the fall season, and it will be interesting to see how he reacts to snow. From our experience with other dogs that did not like to go out on wet grass or in the rain, it was totally different with snow and they could not wait to get in it.
As a side note: From the time Roo was 8 weeks old, until he was about 3 months, we picked him up and took him from his Kennel area, and carried him into the yard and set him down on the grass. Maybe picking your little puppy up when you are taking her out and not setting her down until you are in the grass will do the trick for you.
Hope this helps.
Jason