@DiegosMom:
so my first problem was crate training a 5yo(meeka) who is destructive/afraid of crates and is new to the family (brought her home a few weeks ago). since the house is a mess every time i come home (couches ripped up and such), i decided to video tape the dogs when i was gone to see who was destroying things, meeka or diego. diego i have had for a year and a half and he is not crated and has never destroyed anything.. so i video taped them and both dogs were destroying things.. so now what do i do? i can not crate diego, he is also a rescue and is horrible in a crate, or confined in ANY area. will he ever go back to being nondestructive when uncrated?! Sorry so long, im so frustrated with him and dont know what to do..
Jazzy has also been known to tear things up if Keoki gets her started. I'd hoped for the opposite influence.
I'd still consider ex-pen w/top. They may flip out in there, but they'd have more room and feel somewhat less confined. You know, there's not [probably] going to be a way to solve the problem that doesn't upset them for at least a little while. It's a learning experience for them, and not necessarily an easy one.
Leave them w/lots of paper towels to sleep on/shred up, and start with short periods of time and move toward longer. Do a bit every day.
Our lifestyle – stay at home, homeschooling -- didn't help Keoki at all. I mean, he was with us ALL the time, then on those days {Sundays for Church, Saturday activities out} he would FLIP OUT because I think he wasn't sure he could breathe w/out us at home. He is learning....
It takes a long time. We've had Keoki since April, and he STILL won't let me lock his crate, although he sleeps okay if it is shut. He has to know he can open it and get out into the pen. It's only been the last month that the paper towels are intact when we return home from someplace.
I'm thinking another month or so and I may try leaving his bed in there one Sunday morning...maybe.
This is what we have at this time -- in what used to be our dd's bedroom, then was SUPPOSED to be a guest room when she left for college. Now it's the dog room. :rolleyes:
Two months ago, Keoki wouldn't have tolerated this long enough to get the picture. Today, he just looked a bit confused -- "Mom, why am I in here and you are still there and not giving me my cookies?"