Yes, finding the right trainer is an ongoing problem, and I don't want to leave her somewhere without knowing that she is in the best hands. I need a Basenji Whisperer, and I can't seem to find one.
I would be more likely to chalk part of it up to "owner error," except experienced trainers aren't doing any better. Admittedly, I have a soft touch and believe strongly in positive reinforcement. Some trainers– perhaps many-- rely on harsher methods with difficult dogs. I just parted company with the last trainer, because she said Ava couldn't be trained without a "sterner" hand-- i.e., a choke collar. When I couldn't go along with that, she said she couldn't help us. So that was that. I was glad to see her go.
Am I wrong? Am I being too soft? I know I have a difficult dog-- a stubborn, dominant and yes, a wild dog-- and that training her isn't easy. It's true that gentle discipline and positive reinforcement aren't really working so well. But I know there's a good dog in there. How do we reach her?