I totally agree with him not being remorseful, his face looked it though, but then again that has to do with those darn cute wrinkles, not an expression or feeling.
It is not remorse, it is appeasement. He knows your are angry and wants to appease you because of that.
Dogs do have emotion and they have great body language but we humans do not always read them very well. If you don't have The Language of Dogs in your DVD collection then I highly recommend it. It makes a huge difference knowing what you are seeing.
Here is a video by Susan Garrett that may also help with training Otis to leave it.
Remember however, that everyone MUST be on board when it comes to training…. and needs to happen every day, not just when you remember.
We do leave it when it comes to his food and all the other dogs as well, meaning we put the food down in front of them and say "leave it" ..they are not allowed to touch their bowls until given the command "go ahead", it works fine in that sense, but I need to work on it in other areas as well, like when I go to take the bone or something like that. Otis is actually the one dog out of our four that does "leave it" exceptionally well in those instances..
Thanks for the videos recommendations.
I tried trading it up when I went for the bone he took it, but the second I reached for the "bad/short" bone he went for my arm, with the other treat in his mouht still..I guess I should be faster and more nimble.
Just now, after dinner, they were all away from the dining area, but as I am cleaning up he tries to steal crumbs on the table, so I told him to "leave it" and "get down", he did as told, but seconds later charged Moses that was coming into the dining room..like it is his turf..I separated the two and scolded Otis for his actions..but I know I probably didn't do that right.
I will look into the training tips and work with him more hardcore..
No, Tanza, he isn't neutered yet. I wanted to wait until he turned one, and he just did.
one more question. How do I go about feeding in the crates if they also sleep in there? I mean they get raw food, so meaty bones or sometimes ground meats in a bowl, but wouldn't that get messy on their bedding? I keep their crates in our bedroom, should I move those or does that even matter?
Thanks again for you help guys.
When it comes to crate setup, I think it really depends on you and your household. My dad thinks my mom is nuts because she has so many crates but he sure appreciates it when he needs one because there is always a crate available. She has some setup in her living room, a couple bedroom, she has a set in her car. I don't think I have quite as many as she does but I do have at least 2 crates for each dog.
Crate mats can come out for feeding so they don't get messy when you give them their raw meals. Or you can have crates in feeding area that just don't have bedding in them.
Considering the problem seems to be getting worse, I would have a crate available when you are eating and cleaning up after your dinner so you don't give Otis the opportunity to practice this behavior. Give him his dinner in his crate while you eat and clean up then let him out when everything is done and calm again.
Good idea Lisa..I will do just that..again thanks.
Also keep in mind that things might be changing in the dynamics of the pack, that you are unaware of. He might be acting out in ways that he hasn't before, if he perceives that his status is threatened by the other dogs, particularly since Moses is approaching maturity (correct?) Sometimes it is more difficult to see what is happening in our homes amongst our dogs because we are totally immersed in it… a behaviorist may be able to help you see the forest for the trees, so to speak 
Also keep in mind that things might be changing in the dynamics of the pack, that you are unaware of. He might be acting out in ways that he hasn't before, if he perceives that his status is threatened by the other dogs, particularly since Moses is approaching maturity (correct?) Sometimes it is more difficult to see what is happening in our homes amongst our dogs because we are totally immersed in it… a behaviorist may be able to help you see the forest for the trees, so to speak
I thought of that, since Moses is coming up at 10 months soon..but he is so laid back and will not challenge Otis on anything..not food, not sleeping place, he will sleep on the floor if the beds are taken, Otis will simply walk allover the other dogs and just plop himself onto them until they move and voila..his place is great. Moses will drop toys if Otis motions towards him..but maybe I am not seeing all of it. We have two other dogs in the house, older than Otis, but Otis has always bossed them around..until they have had enough and then they rip his head off and be done with it for another couple of weeks/months.
We'll see, I will start by feeding them in their crates tomorrow and while we eat.
Again as pointed out, you may not be reading the signals that are being given off… and a little story here... My Maggii was very laid back, my Fatia was a "want be" top dog and decided that Maggii was the problem. Now in dog language, if you watched Maggii, while she seems submissive, she really was not.. but instead a very confindent bitch and happy in her own skin. And Fatia saw this as a challenge. She would attack Maggii at every chance... Maggii, while she would defend herself, was never the aggressor of a situation.. but still Fatia saw her as a challenge... Long story short, Fatia found a new home (and it worked perfectly) but to the untrained eye, no one would have picked up on the pack pecking order, if you didn't know each of the dogs and their body postures/language.
Rather then a "trainer" unless also a behaviorist, I would opt for a behaviorist that can give you clues/tips to put into action to help the situation. And trust me, it will not get better on its own.
I have to agree with Lisa, Pat & Andrea - a behaviorist is in order - it does seem that you'll need outside help to fix this. I think it is very possible there are other signals that you are missing (do buy the Language of Dogs DVD if you don't have it already) - and it does sound like the problem is escalating and won't get better until you get help. Just curious, but did Otis bite you or your husband before Moses came along?
The feeding in crates and keeping them crated while you are cleaning up is good, but you also have the added issue if the kids have food at any time the dogs are loose in the house - that would be what I'd be most concerned about at this point. Otis has shown that he isn't afraid of going after your son to get food.
Oh, and one thing you said was that you should be "faster & more nimble" when doing trading up with Otis so as not to get bitten - I'd have to disagree, you shouldn't have to be worrying about how fast you do anything.
I have to agree with Lisa, Pat & Andrea - a behaviorist is in order - it does seem that you'll need outside help to fix this. I think it is very possible there are other signals that you are missing (do buy the Language of Dogs DVD if you don't have it already) - and it does sound like the problem is escalating and won't get better until you get help. Just curious, but did Otis bite you or your husband before Moses came along?
The feeding in crates and keeping them crated while you are cleaning up is good, but you also have the added issue if the kids have food at any time the dogs are loose in the house - that would be what I'd be most concerned about at this point. Otis has shown that he isn't afraid of going after your son to get food.
Oh, and one thing you said was that you should be "faster & more nimble" when doing trading up with Otis so as not to get bitten - I'd have to disagree, you shouldn't have to be worrying about how fast you do anything.[/[/COLOR]QUOTE]
True…quick tip. When you are starting this training, once you get the dog's attention with the good treat...you can throw it across the room...or at the very least hold it far away, so they have to get up and leave what they are guarding, and you can calmly pick it up. You do the ground work for this behavior when they DON'T have something they are guarding though, by training a 'leave it' and then a cue to move away from it 'over there', and then 'sit wait' while you get the item...and then a reward. You train all those steps during a calm time, with no other dogs in the room.
I will see if I can find a behaviorist in our area, shouldn't be too hard I hope.
No Otis never bit any of us before Moses got here..maybe a clue. Moses is very large compared to Otis, so maybe that is one of the subtle clues I am missing, maybe Otis feel threatened by size. Otis is not neutered yet, could that be part of the problem?
..and you are all right, I shouldn't have to worry about being fast enough or nimble around any of my dogs in fear of getting lunged at..this is our house..not theirs, but they are allowed to share it with us.
My kids have rules not to walk around and eat and only to eat at the kitchen table, during the days if weather permits the dogs are outside, if not, I will start crating them so no opportunities are given to Otis to steal or attack.
I will see if I can find a behaviorist in our area, shouldn't be too hard I hope.
No Otis never bit any of us before Moses got here..maybe a clue. Moses is very large compared to Otis, so maybe that is one of the subtle clues I am missing, maybe Otis feel threatened by size. Otis is not neutered yet, could that be part of the problem?
..and you are all right, I shouldn't have to worry about being fast enough or nimble around any of my dogs in fear of getting lunged at..this is our house..not theirs, but they are allowed to share it with us.
My kids have rules not to walk around and eat and only to eat at the kitchen table, during the days if weather permits the dogs are outside, if not, I will start crating them so no opportunities are given to Otis to steal or attack.
Actually, that wasn't really the point…though it is a valid point! Being fast isn't part of the trading up. You want the dog to think that something GOOD is happening to him, rather than having something taken away...so the speed, or agility with which you do it should have no bearing...and actually doing things quickly, and frantically tends to raise the level of arousal, rather than lower it.
For a dog like Otis, who has shown you that he is willing to use his teeth to defend 'his' food...you will need a systematic approach to retraining him to let him know it is okay for everybody to take stuff away from him. It is a good preliminary plan to keep kids and dogs separate when food is involved, but you will still need to "re-program" Otis because accidents happen where people drop food, or something gets left behind and the dogs come in, etc.
Make sure the behaviorist/trainer that you choose uses a technique that makes sense to you. You need someone who will use positive reinforcement techniques, but also has experience in effectively dealing with resource guarding...you might ask for some references to contact. It sounds like the first bit of advice you got from your trainer wasn't bad...but didn't really do anything to address the problem.
Good luck, and let us know how it goes...
The only thing I'd add to Andrea's excellent post is that I doubt it has much to do with Moses' arrival or Moses' size, but who knows.
And regarding whether it has to do with Otis being intact - that is anyone's guess. I've said this before, personally if I had kids, there isn't any way in heck that I'd have intact animals in my house - that is just MY opinion. I find that taking that out of the equation makes for a lot more stable household and for calmer pets.
Add to that he's managed to escape from your yard - well, it only takes that 1 time to have an unplanned litter of pups - accidents happen, both in escapes and pregnancies. Having intact animals is a huge responsibility IMHO and takes a lot of management - especially when there are multiple intact animals in a household.
This is definitely not a slam at you AT ALL, so please don't take it that way. Just my .02.
Quercus and Renault1.
Thanks for your input..
I do believe we are on the right track with feeding them in their crates..just have to get myself and family used to it, but it will work fine in the end.
Otis will get fixed, just wanted to wait until he turned one..well he is one now, now we can move on and get him fixed.
I have emailed two behavorists in Houston (all I could find), and will interview both of them to see which one is the best fit.
Renault1, by the way, not taking your post as a slam at all, it is your opinion and I agree with it, it is a lot of responsibility, thus I am freaked out if he gets out..for his safety and his potential "mistake".
Oh, yes…I missed that part of the post...I would most definitely neuter him ASAP...that alleviate a lot of the tension that causes these issues.
Found a behaviorist that we will meet with tomorrow at 11:00 am..she sounds very much on the same page as some of the things you've already told me..will keep y'all posted.
again thanks for all your help.
It must go back to BYB and breeding for temperament. Seems to me when all else fails we blame the breeder but with that having been said I have to say Jaycee has never tried to bite anyone. (Maybe that is because of those awful uneven teeth that some seem to know so much about.) I have two (2) females Jaycee and Spice that eat out of the same food bowl at the same time no problems. As of a couple weeks ago Jaycee got a new baby brother and now there are three heads in a bowl and no problems. Even with those little baby teeth going after Jaycee she has never once tried to bite or be mean to the baby.
Rita Jean
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It must go back to BYB and breeding for temperament. Seems to me when all else fails we blame the breeder but with that having been said I have to say Jaycee has never tried to bite anyone. (Maybe that is because of those awful uneven teeth that some seem to know so much about.) I have two (2) females Jaycee and Spice that eat out of the same food bowl at the same time no problems. As of a couple weeks ago Jaycee got a new baby brother and now there are three heads in a bowl and no problems. Even with those little baby teeth going after Jaycee she has never once tried to bite or be mean to the baby.
Rita Jean
This particular thread and issue has no bearing on the dogs' breeding at all. Lots of dogs are resource guarders, from good breeders and bad…show dogs, not show dogs. Congrats on Jaycee being kind to the other dogs...I hope you find that they all continue to get along...you don't really see how things are going to shake down between dogs for about a year or more.
