Gorgeous dog and such a great story! I loved reading it…she was something VERY special...thank you so much for sharing!!
Zoni's first Puppy Match
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Ha, ha, ha…GREAT pics!! Holy cow does Zoni look like she was moving fast in that first pic :D:D:D. Too cute!
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I am pretty sure the spinning was an initiation rite
I have never heard of that before…but I can just imagine you saying 'well, ooookay' 
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Not to scare anyone…but I did have a judge begrudingly give Querk a point one time, and then during the picture taking she said "this is a very nice dog, you either need to learn to show him properly, or find someone else to do it" ....she didn't really say it 'kindly' either. Nice way to help novices....ugh. Funnily enough, I was so thrilled to get a point that it didn't really phase me.
I guess the moral of this story is that you will meet some jerky judges while you do this, and you may feel embarrassment and shame in their rings...but you will live through it, and be able to laugh later. The behavior of people who wish to shame you says more about them, than it does about you
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Andrea is right and there are some jerky judges out there. I was lucky and the few I ran into when I was starting were mostly rude, not giving me my time, and didn't really say anything to me. My mom wasn't so lucky and had some pretty hurtful things said to her in the ring with Cole. I must say though that I really appreciate how supportive the basenji community is though because it was their supportive comments that kept her going back after a bad day.
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Thank you both Andrea & Lisa…really great posts for us beginners. I'm sure it will feel differently though the first time I'm actually on the receiving end, so I'll try to keep these posts in mind. I'm sure I'll have some funny stories after the fact.
I do have a good story from the George Alston clinic I went to. I had been forewarned (by Mike Work amongst others) that he can be a bear and that he makes people cry...but I thought, hey I do creative for a job and get rough criticism nearly everyday :D...it will be fine...how bad can it be.
Well, I think I posted that the clinic was not for the thin skinned...wanna know why I said that? The first day of the clinic wasn't bad, I think I got briefly yelled at once...otherwise, nothing was really said to me so I figured, ok, I must not be doing too bad. The next morning we started on the "L" pattern. I went second. Let's just say, I didn't do so well my first pass thru it...everything was wrong, the lead, the changing of the hands, the turn once the judge had examined the dog...everything. In front of 30 people I was pretty much made the example of for how not to show a dog for about 15 - 20 minutes...but at least I didn't cry :). He is a stickler for the lead to be held neatly and EXACTLY as he teaches it...I had it wrong. The piece de resistance was when he said "if you can't learn to hold the lead correctly, you should show cats as you don't need to use a lead on them." :eek: :D:D:D
I can laugh about it now (I had Pam & Sheila rolling when I told them the whole story - this was just a snippet). I'm sure it helps that at the end of the day there was a dog show with the 2 classes - beginner and advanced both doing the "L" pattern. The beginner class was 9 people - I took second. And when he gave me my ribbon, he said, "you really earned it" and he told me that he could tell I had really listened and paid attention. So I pretty much think, even though it was a rough way to learn, I definitely got a lot out of it...and a funny quote to tell.
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Thank you both Andrea & Lisa…really great posts for us beginners. I'm sure it will feel differently though the first time I'm actually on the receiving end, so I'll try to keep these posts in mind. I'm sure I'll have some funny stories after the fact.
I do have a good story from the George Alston clinic I went to. I had been forewarned (by Mike Work amongst others) that he can be a bear and that he makes people cry...but I thought, hey I do creative for a job and get rough criticism nearly everyday :D...it will be fine...how bad can it be.
Well, I think I posted that the clinic was not for the thin skinned...wanna know why I said that? The first day of the clinic wasn't bad, I think I got briefly yelled at once...otherwise, nothing was really said to me so I figured, ok, I must not be doing too bad. The next morning we started on the "L" pattern. I went second. Let's just say, I didn't do so well my first pass thru it...everything was wrong, the lead, the changing of the hands, the turn once the judge had examined the dog...everything. In front of 30 people I was pretty much made the example of for how not to show a dog for about 15 - 20 minutes...but at least I didn't cry :). He is a stickler for the lead to be held neatly and EXACTLY as he teaches it...I had it wrong. The piece de resistance was when he said "if you can't learn to hold the lead correctly, you should show cats as you don't need to use a lead on them." :eek: :D:D:D
I can laugh about it now (I had Pam & Sheila rolling when I told them the whole story - this was just a snippet). I'm sure it helps that at the end of the day there was a dog show with the 2 classes - beginner and advanced both doing the "L" pattern. The beginner class was 9 people - I took second. And when he gave me my ribbon, he said, "you really earned it" and he told me that he could tell I had really listened and paid attention. So I pretty much think, even though it was a rough way to learn, I definitely got a lot out of it...and a funny quote to tell.
A good friend of mine took that seminar, and she said the same thing…he is tough, and he makes you work to learn. I am glad you had a good experience. I would imagine Basenji people would do okay, since we kind of have to be able to laugh at ourselves
I love the showing cats comment....have you ever seen that? It is strange...they stretch them all out....kind of handle them like a hand bag... It doesn't matter if the cat tries to bite or scratch.... wierd...
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A good friend of mine took that seminar, and she said the same thing…he is tough, and he makes you work to learn. I am glad you had a good experience. I would imagine Basenji people would do okay, since we kind of have to be able to laugh at ourselves
I love the showing cats comment....have you ever seen that? It is strange...they stretch them all out....kind of handle them like a hand bag... It doesn't matter if the cat tries to bite or scratch.... wierd...
Yeah, the cat quote was a classic…my first insult in the show ring! :D:D No, I never have seen a cat show...but based on your description and how he used the reference, I can just imagine. :D:D
Regarding the seminar...yes I learned so much that I'm going to do it again next year! I found something online after the fact where they actually recommend if you've never shown a dog before that you should audit the class and just observe because he doesn't mince words...understatement :D. I did think it was weird that I was the only person in the beginner class that had never shown a dog before...that is probably why. The standing joke with the other beginners was that they couldn't believe that my dog's breeder would throw me to the wolves and suggest I take the class with no handling experience.
Oh, and regarding basenjis - his first wife used to breed basenjis in Florida...that was over 30 years ago!
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Oh man, these bring back memories. lol I am looking forward to taking a George Alston seminar one of these days. When job and money allows. I am really looking forward to the torture because I really want to learn the finer points.
Yes, there are certainly judges who's words or looks were definitely sharp. But most of the time the judges realize you're new and do try to help. lol I did have one really scary day though. This was with my first dog, and we had a big show coming up where the sweeps judge was a good friend of his breeder. I was actually excited and hoped that she would like his type, as he was definitely different than what was around here. Well the sweeps class was a bust and the judge made a point to catch me right after and proceed to tell me I didn't know how to show my dog and I need to go to a class. And of course I had been taking classes every other week with nothing but great comments, and this was after almost a year of showing with my boy just needing majors and having a breed over specials in the past. That definitely was a little weird. I know I have a LOT to learn, but what a weird way to encourage someone. I don't know that I would consider that positive reinforcement? lol And she also said she would be reporting back to his breeder so I was starting to freak out. So we go back in for the regular classes and there is this judge, sitting right outside the ring at the down & back, staring at me, ON THE PHONE!!! Holy crap, can you imagine what was going through my head the whole time I was in the ring. lol I think from what little I could hear I could tell who it was with. And she had no problems grabbing me to onfirm this after I leave the ring again. EEK!
Well everything ended up all good later. lol I have since spent some time with said judge and been out to dinner with them, etc. at the nationals. And turns out the jist of the conversation was just to explain she couldn't place him because he was so immature still. lol
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LOL…Kelli, great story! I would have been thinking the EXACT same thing. I love how you got to hear the whole story later on, but what a thing to say to someone new!
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I am pretty sure the spinning was an initiation rite
I have never heard of that before…but I can just imagine you saying 'well, ooookay' Hang in there, it is always hardest with your first show dog...try to have fun!That's exactly what I said but it was right after I said "Seriously, you want me to do what?"
The judge was a long-time basenji breeder so I figured she knew what she was talking about.I guess the moral of this story is that you will meet some jerky judges while you do this, and you may feel embarrassment and shame in their rings…but you will live through it, and be able to laugh later. The behavior of people who wish to shame you says more about them, than it does about you
my inspirational message of the day.Thanks, I like that inspirational message. It's a good mantra for when I get a jerky judge.
