@rjbasenji - this is the time to align with a responsible breeder for a pup maybe in 2021. Because Basenjis only come in season once a year and their litter size is only 4-6 puppies, it is difficult to find one especially will all the people that "want" one... If you can visit with a breeder that would help you or if not call them on the phone and tell them why you think that a Basenji would be a good fit for your family/lifestyle.
7 year old Basenji who needs a family
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@eeeefarm said in 7 year old Basenji who needs a family:
but dogs don't get the same benefit of the doubt. People often are the authors of their own misfortune. It's too bad it's the animal that suffers the consequences.<<The answer there is obvious... we hold dogs accountable for having human reasoning, but we don't horses. Of course dogs have reasoning, but it's not ours and people don't get it. It's like people saying their dog KNOWS it's wrong to poop in the house. Well.. no. They know you get mad if they do, they know if you train them they are supposed to go out. But wrong? No.
Sadly, unlike horses, dogs live with us up close and personal. So if one person can handle the horse, no one else has to be around it generally. With the dog, it is trapped in social structure. You can bet your bottom dollar my grandparent's farm dogs would chew you up if you came on the property at night other than to the front porch or drive... but folks expected that and they didn't sue you if they got bit. We are too litigation happy. I am sad that that precise factor makes me so anti-biter placing, because most of the time, I can and do get if a dog is simply unstable or there is good reasoning (at least for the dog) to bite.
Years ago Leora and I were at a dog show and she ... I KNOW she knew better... just suddenly pet this sleeping Great Dane as I was talking to someone next to them. The dog could have inhaled her.. she was maybe 40 pounds and it was huge. It left pink marks on her little white hand as it startled. The owners turned whiter than Leora (which is saying a lot as her friend says she rivals paper). Yes, I could have reported the dog to AKC, but I had zero doubt this was a first, and that the owners would never ever allow such a thing. I calmed them, chastised Leora for risking the dog's life over her behavior, and went on my way.
Years ago, I agreed to evaluate a severely abused 6 or 7 yr old Lhasa the rescue said was named Hannah when they asked me to evaluate her for them. They coordinator called me after about 4 days and asked if I was ever going to deal with them again.. and then admitted this dog had bitten several people, that they actually called her Hannibell Lecture, but they couldn't bear to put her down and if I felt it had to be done, they were behind me. They just wanted one last chance.
I put her on prozac because as it got dark out, she began to get bug-eyed and scary. When you know she was locked in a basement with only a partial window for light for at least 5 yrs... so pitch dark all night.. it made sense. After a few months, she became less fearful and frantic, but she'd still bite. I actually was planning to put her down, but a friend was here and we went to give her a bath and both of us sat bawling because she was so incredibly sweet when she wasn't crazy. Another friend, on a farm, no kids-- didn't like them so no one took small kids to her house lol -- said bring her to me. She lived the next 6 yrs in the huge cat/laundr rooms, cuddling with the cats and having a happy life. If Sally said "walkie walkie" and Hannah growled, she left her. When she didn't growl, she took her for potty breaks and walks. The trade off was Sally's husband refused to do the laundry or cat rooms as long as Hannah was alive. My vet was angry with me for not putting her down, until she got an eye infection and they boarded her 2 weeks clearing it up. So the vet called and said Sally and I were right, and nearly cried talking about how trusting and sweet she was while they medicated and put stuff in her eye. But if I hadn't had a Sally, I'd have had to put her down. So I'm not heartless, just pragmatic. Sally would never have sued me, the dog was on a 13 acre (Paso Fino) farm with almost zero risk for hurting anyone living with dog savvy owners.
As an aside, this same rescue though, nearly got shut down over placing an incredibly beautiful and equally unstable Pekingese in six, yes SIX FREAKING HOMES, with six bite incidents before they put it down. What made me furious is not only did they cause 5 people to get bitten after the first one, they also lost 5 homes that would have taken in and loved a dog that would never use their rescue again, and they assuredly told countless people never go to rescue. The damage just ripples out. So I oscillate between care for the dogs, and wanting to save them, and then balancing one dog against the damage it can do in so many ways beyond just a bite.
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@naz-roseberry Hi there! I understand you're having a problem with Cutler being aggressive & biting kids so you're wanting to get him a new home, with no kids? How does this sound? Cutler living with a 60 yr. old, retired female, never married, no kids & rarely has any company, except adults a few times a yr. & on Sunday evenings (about 6 in a row), there's a 16 yr. old neighbor who comes over to watch an hour long TV show (an animal lover but will not bother the dog if told not to) & she just had to have her 16 & a half yr. old Basenji girl, (legally her companion animal), put down this past Aug. & she's looking for a Basenji who is out of the "puppy stage" so he won't use her toes as chew toys. She lives in an apartment complex with a 6 ft. heavy vinyl fenced back yard with a locking gate. The fence is solid so you can't see thru it & the yard is 15'x18' & if her dog is outside, she is too & there are no other animals. Is this the kind of home you want Cutler to have? If so, I believe we need to discuss this further! I really need to have another Basenji in my life & he will be loved & spoiled rotten!
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@Nancy-Berry said in 7 year old Basenji who needs a family:
@naz-roseberry Hi there! I understand you're having a problem with Cutler being aggressive & biting kids so you're wanting to get him a new home, with no kids? How does this sound? Cutler living with a 60 yr. old, retired female, never married, no kids & rarely has any company, except adults a few times a yr. & on Sunday evenings (about 6 in a row), there's a 16 yr. old neighbor who comes over to watch an hour long TV show (an animal lover but will not bother the dog if told not to) & she just had to have her 16 & a half yr. old Basenji girl, (legally her companion animal), put down this past Aug. & she's looking for a Basenji who is out of the "puppy stage" so he won't use her toes as chew toys. She lives in an apartment complex with a 6 ft. heavy vinyl fenced back yard with a locking gate. The fence is solid so you can't see thru it & the yard is 15'x18' & if her dog is outside, she is too & there are no other animals. Is this the kind of home you want Cutler to have? If so, I believe we need to discuss this further! I really need to have another Basenji in my life & he will be loved & spoiled rotten!<<
And here is your Sally.
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@DebraDownSouth Oh me too! I don't know how much longer I can stand being all alone! I'm just getting more & more depressed day by day & I know a Basenji would be the best anti-depressent I could get!!
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@Nancy-Berry I forgot to ask if Cutler has been tested for Fanconi ~ I really hope he has been!
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@DebraDownSouth I guess that maybe BRAT took Cutler or they found someone to take him. There hasn't been anything in here since 3 days ago when ar2003 posted that she had just submitted the form to BRAT, as someone had just suggested it to her. Oh well, guess that's the way the cookie crumbles! It won't be long before BRAT & Camp Basenji have more dogs up for adoption. I see they finally took the picture & info down on BRAT's website for the Senji girl that took my breath away & she's still been in my dreams! My 1st. girl was a red & white & my 2nd. girl was brindle. I know BRAT has a beautiful brindle that looks so much like my Dorie but the 2 problems I could possibly have with her is the bolting out the front door & the trick knee. I'd have to wait until her little knee cap slipped out of place & take her to my Vet (about 4 blocks away) & have them show me how to manipulate it back into place, then I'd be good with that! But keeping her from bolting out the front door! That area is way too wide for my metal gate & if I were to put up 2 baby gates (one on top of the other) ~ the property manager might be very unhappy with that!! But, I'm sure she's been unhappy before!! LOL!! I sure would've loved to had Chloe though. She was just so beautiful. I know I have to stop dwelling on her bcoz she is gone. So, since there's been no more posts from Cutlers family, I think that has "gone South" also! Sooo, my friends in here ~ I'm off to look at some more Senjis, if Camp Basenji has any! But I need to fill out their initial adoption form. I might fill out one for BRATs Kali with the trick knee & bolting issue. I think the bolting issue is the most worrisome flaw for me. Oh, it says she rides in the passenger seat nicely but then, down below, it says NO! But I'm sure the Coordinator could straighten that out easy enough! Later my friends ;=)
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I would give it a day or so before I gave up, Nancy. They could be talking to BRAT, could be away for the weekend, whatever. Not everyone checks forums daily, especially if they are busy with other things.
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@Nancy-Berry good morning Nancy. I just want to give you an update on Cutler. My wives parents have stepped up and are trying to see if Cutler can fit there. They have always enjoyed Cutler and think it could be a good fit. If not, you will be the very first person I contact. Let's give it a few days and I will let you know. Thanks again to you all during this tough &new terrain we're going through.
Naz
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@naz-roseberry I think it will work out well with Cutlers "Grandma & Grandpa" lol. I think that the move to a new neighborhood with 10 times the kids upset Cutler bcoz it was 10 times more noise than he was used to. Plus, I think some kids teased Cutler when you weren't right there with him & it was just too much for him noise wise & the teasing just flat pissed him off! At least Cutler is still in the family! He knows the people he's going to live with & he'll be able to see his before family when you all go to visit! I couldn't imagine how hard it would be to have to put him down just because he wasn't able to adjust to the new neighborhood. I'm really happy that you don't have to go thru that too. Hopefully, all's well that ends well ~ right? Take Care! Nancy Berry
