Hello everyone,
This is probably very often talked about, but I am kinda lost in how to handle my 9 months old B. He has become really reactive towards other dogs, mostly male but also female (even his age or younger), although he has been socialized since he was 4 months.
We had a group of dogs he'd play with, but at @ 7 months I stopped going there due to some relocation issues and around the same time he started being reactive. We're back now and started going again, but he no longer likes most of the dogs there (he is fine with 3 or 4 that he's most used to), but everytime I let him meet other dogs, even those he has met before, he just jumps at their neck out of the blue, be it on leash or off leash. Tonight he become really aggresive, pulling and screaming to almost biting me because I was trying to restrain him. Needless to say that I left right away, because I just couldn't control him.
I am not going back there because I feel like it's hurting my relationship with him, because he obviously doesn't like it when I restrain him, but I just don't know what else to do.
His leash manners are not really there, although it's the thing I've trained most with him (I use a martingale for walks and a harness for 'free' time). I've been doing obedience with him since the first day I got him, he is 99% good in doors, listens just fine, he is also ok outside when there are no hard distractions, or even when there are and I have something better, but I juts don't know how to deal with reactivity/aggression. I've read 2 books already on this and altohugh it's good info, doesn't seem to help.
He is fine with people, although he is reluctant with meeting new ones, which is understandable, but I'm worried it will get worse with time and we have a baby on the way.
We don't really have behaviourists around here and I wouldn't let him at a training place because I know how these guys train (mostly by fear). I need some advice from people that actually know the breed and dealt with similar cases.
PS: Just wanted to add that he has always been somewhat reactive, but in a playful way. He would be really excited to get to the 'playground' and meet & play with the other dogs. In fact, he has always been interested in meeting other dogs, aka pulling and whinning to do so even when not possible. I tried to train this out of him in time, but the circumstances are that there are dogs all around my neighboarhood so it's hard to ALWAYS avoid interactions and train at his threshold. It's mostly dogs inside yards barking, but he always pulls towards the fences.