@zande I was so so nervous at first when they started to play, because they were totally silent, no growling at all. They still are mostly silent apart from their scampering/slamming/sliding/knocking-things-over sounds lol. Not worried at all now and rewarding them for sharing spaces seems to have helped significantly more than the whole "let them figure it out for themselves" idea.
@chealsie508 - I just heard from the breeder in MD that I spoke about.... can I get your email so I can connect the both of you? She might be able to help with finding a good vet for Oakley. You can email me, address you can find on my website, link below.
training it (potty train, learning commands such as sit, no etc or remembering their names)
-from my experience it i harder to tach them so you really need to practice them few time in a day.
Removing it from its litter? Will it have separation anxiety?
-yes they would. 1st month would be difficult but after that they will feel more relaxed.
Will they be comfortable settling in a new home?
-it would take obviously but just be patient and always notice them for them to easily love you!