Insane? Well I've been called worse.<lol>
Sorry you do not like the message but…......
You, yourself said your vet could have saved you the time and trouble (and your poor boy needless days of suffering) had s/he just done an x-ray in the beginning. All of your posts re: your vet have basically implied that s/he is the one at fault, which I agree - to a point.
Once the information was in your hands (which you specifically asked for) to ask for an x-ray (or get to a second vet for an xray) and nothing was done - some of the responsibility is laid at your feet. And while I am not a vet, I am a Certified Vet tech with over 15 years experience in a 5 doctor practice so not just some uneducated person trolling various forums looking to "pontificate" its members, as you imply. It does sound fun though.
In the end - too many folks do not feel empowered enough to approach their vets and ask for what they want; I am only educating folks, as a member of the field, that not only do they have the power - they have the RIGHT to do so as the vet works for THEM - not the other way around.
Though not a vet, my profession is the second best thing to a vet to some folks; having witnessed first hand (more than once) obstructed male ureters - that can obstruct and un-obstruct as the stones move - I beg to differ with the "expert" that waiting 10 days for an ultrasound when an x-ray (taken within a few minutes/hours) could have sufficed was in the best interest of your pet.
But then I am the pets advocate, not the doctor's and not the clients. I try and speak for those who can not. And if someone on this forum can read this exchange and be empowered to speak up for their pet, you can gladly continue to call me every name in the book!
Mercury turnpike cruiser</lol>