So last night we did some intensive 'hey let's all get used to being crated' work. Put her in, left the room, waited for the wailing to stop, returned, treated, etc. Over and over and over again, until she got tired of it.
This morning we got up at 4:30. It was still freezing, and we'd had such a patently unsuccessful walk last night, I didn't want to risk it in the dark, so we stayed in. I chased her all over the house, tried to expend as much energy as we could. I filled a Kong with rollover and peanut butter, got her really interested in that, put some soothing music on the tv, covered her crate with a blanket, put in a tshirt that smelled of me, everything I could think of.
10 minutes after I left the house, I got another cranky phone call from my downstairs neighbours. More screaming. Sigh.
I'm not giving up yet, it's only been a day, and she's just a baby. I'll spend some more time working with her tonight, and hopefully my boyfriend and I can work from home this week, or at least leave the house a lot later in the day. (6:30 a.m. is no fun to be awoken)
Does anyone have an opinion on using a penny can? (i.e. crate her, leave the room, when the howling starts, shake the penny can and tell her 'quiet')? It feels counterproductive to me, but I'm getting just a tiny bit desperate.
Thanks everyone, for the advice and support.