I was a little pre-occupied earlier today, and Doodle displayed her displeasure at my constant delays... how? She got up on the sofa and did this little prancing-dancing thing. Like she was saying, "haha, look at me misbehaving". LOL oh yeah.... if that is her "breaking bad", I'm in trouble, she's got my heart!
Bladder stand-off
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Well, I think I ruined last night's success by being too obvious about walking her across the line and telling her to pee, haha. This morning, as we came out the side door, she pulled toward the street, and leaned back against the leash, I had to tow her down into and around the yard. About halfway along she started walking without resistance, but she wasn't looking for a place to pee, just kind of staring off into lala land. I included that bit of the neighbor's yard in the potty lap and I think the official sanction made it lose its charm.
There was a question about the size of the area, our yard is around a tenth of an acre. I don't have any garden or flowerbed to avoid, so she can pee anywhere in the yard. We've been using one area, the back right quarter, as the "pee place" for potty training purposes, but we'll walk all over and around the yard during these sessions and she could pee anywhere. All I care about is that it's on my property so that it's somewhere I can take her quickly, wearing a bathrobe, and that she pees in a relatively brief period of time when presented with the opportunity.
At this point, if she doesn't have a bladder infection, she's going to give herself one with all the retention, so I think we're going to start her on a course of Cipro. I'd love feedback if anyone else has had this kind of stand-off, or has any other ideas about how to motivate her or trick her into thinking she WANTS to pee quickly in the yard!!!
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I'm guessing your yard isn't fenced? So letting her loose to do her own thing is off the table?
I think if I had this problem I might try just walking her first thing instead of continuing to make an issue of it. If you go straight out for a walk (your idea, not hers), rather than ending up using that option after an unsuccessful attempt at home, it may alleviate the current situation. If you continue to insist she go at home, there is a danger of it becoming ingrained to resist going in the yard.
Also, some dogs do not want to use their own home area as a bathroom. Many would prefer to go elsewhere, and do so if they have the choice. (back in the day when dogs often ran loose, it was common for them to go use the neighbour's yard for the purpose). Perhaps sexual maturity has resulted in triggering the instinct not to leave a calling card at home base.
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Lucky in 25+ years of Basenjis, I have never had this problem….. I would try the meds and then after that course see what happens. If it is medical, I would say that after 3 or 4 days you should see a difference.
Are you planning to have her spayed?
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Yard is not fenced, it's a rental. We've done lots of off-lead work under distraction, but we've got wildlife, loose dogs and cats, etc everywhere right around our house, and a fair amount of traffic on the street. And, honestly, I don't even trust fencing to contain a dog with this kind of motivation and agility. Our last house was fenced all around, with a heavy blackberry hedge to boot. I found out ten years in that our old dog was sneaking out of the yard through an invisible hole behind the garage, visiting the neighbor kid, and making it back into the yard unnoticed, sometimes in a two-minute window. We never knew he was doing it, the kids just told us years later that he'd come over to play. He was with me 100% of his life, with the exception of five to ten minute potty breaks in the fenced yard. I never, ever took my eyes off him, and I didn't even start doing that until he was three or four. Where there's a will, there's a way, and I like a dog with a lot of will ;0).
I wouldn't mind if she held it to pee on the workout, but she does not. I'm not always going to be able to work her out first thing in the morning; sometimes I'm travelling and someone else is handling her, sometimes we're all travelling and she won't get exercised until we get to a good place for it, sometimes I get called out to work at 4 am, have the flu, etc. The first few days she refused to pee, when I didn't immediately walk her, she peed in the car and house.
So I guess on the days I can't walk her in the morning, she could remain crated all day until I'm free in the afternoon or evening for exercise and just hold it if she refuses in the AM potty break. That seems unpleasant to me; if she would relieve herself in the yard, she can have some relative freedom of movement, play with the other dog, etc during the day as we've been doing.Lucky in 25+ years of Basenjis, I have never had this problem….. I would try the meds and then after that course see what happens. If it is medical, I would say that after 3 or 4 days you should see a difference.
Are you planning to have her spayed?
I haven't quite decided what to do about altering. Ideally I'd prefer to do a simple hysterectomy and leave her endocrine system intact, but my vet here isn't sure she wants to do it, and it'll be a while until we're in an area where there are vets who are familiar with OSS options. Depending on how she matures it might also be fun to show her, not as a breeding prospect but just for the practice and fun of it. Either way, I'm not into pediatric spaying, so it'll be probably a year before we do it, if we did.
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combined post!
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Sometimes you just have to figure out what works, at least in the short term. Would ten minutes around the block walk get the required results? If so, I would just make that work until conditions are right to really deal with the problem. (If it's entirely up to you, get up ten minutes earlier if need be! Roust her out of bed at 4 a.m. if that's what it takes!) Dogs don't think like we do, even Basenjis. It will not occur to her that she is uncomfortable because she didn't comply with your wishes. She will just decide it isn't worth "holding it" and being uncomfortable, and oops, there goes your house training. This is one issue that simply isn't worth trying to "out stubborn" her on. Best to finesse it as well as you can, and you may be pleasantly surprised when the problem goes away all by itself.
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Sometimes you just have to figure out what works, at least in the short term. Would ten minutes around the block walk get the required results? If so, I would just make that work until conditions are right to really deal with the problem.
Well, when conditions are right, what would you do? I definitely see the logic in just sucking it up, etc., and early on I was just getting up at 3:30 and running her regardless. But this isn't the safest of areas, and it occurred to me on a stormy pre-dawn that should something scary happen, let's just say she is not the kind of dog whose company wards off danger. I never, ever, EVER worried about going for a jog at night with my dogo. This is also the kind of area where people still let their dogs run around loose at night. One of the last times I went on a pre-dawn run with my dogo, we came around a corner and face-to-face with a trailer-park pack of southern yard scrappers that IMMEDIATELY came after us, en masse. Now, I'm not afraid of much, but that was kind of hair-raising.
Up til now, if I didn't feel comfortable, or able, to take her on an outside romp, we could pee in the yard and then do relay games or something in the house for exercise. And what if we're in a hotel and there's one tiny patch of outside she can use? Though it does seem to make sense that maybe if it's a non-issue where she pees, at the moment I really need her to pee where we are, it won't be an issue.
I'm concerned that I could, say, get her to pee in the front yard, then she'd hold it until we went around the block, then she would hold it until she got a half-mile out, etc. That she'll learn that the longer she holds it, the more of a romp she gets.
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I'm concerned that I could, say, get her to pee in the front yard, then she'd hold it until we went around the block, then she would hold it until she got a half-mile out, etc. That she'll learn that the longer she holds it, the more of a romp she gets.
That can definitely be a problem. Best strategy is not to immediately turn around and go home. Yes, you are in a hurry, but go at least a short distance further, and make something else your signal that it is time to head back. e.g. you are walking slowly, you say excitedly "let's go!!" and you jog or run back home, making it as exciting a prospect as possible. If she enjoys this, it could work into being her reward for the pee, but don't get ahead of yourself.
As far as safety is concerned, I don't know how to address that. In my neighbourhood I wouldn't worry, but in any case, being very aware of your surroundings is always the best defense. If you see something you don't like, you could perhaps call out to an invisible companion. Or start talking to yourself like a crazy person.
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Well, I mean, safety-wise, I am aware, and capable, and do have weapons and can act like a nut, but I very, very, VERY much prefer to avoid any kind of confrontation in the first place. A lady with a big, bad (looking) dog doesn't invite human approach, and we were able to stand-down the yard scrapper pack. Scout would not have worked with me that way, she would either have launched herself at them, or attempted to exit stage left at top speed, and I wouldn't have been fast enough to run.
And it's not that I think something IS likely to happen, really, but I'm just really aware of what scenarios invite it, and putting myself out in dark places or being on foot where I know there are sketchy, loose dogs just doesn't seem prudent, even if I feel fairly capable of dealing with those kinds of threats. This is a poor, rural area with a higher crime rate than I'd like. There aren't always working street lights and there are lots of abandoned houses, long stretches of jungle-y thickets between sketchy apartment complexes, dodgy trailer parks, etc. I don't worry in daylight hours because there are people around, but I'd rather not be out in the dark when the meth heads, yard dogs, and skunks are ;0).
@eeeefarm:That can definitely be a problem. Best strategy is not to immediately turn around and go home.
Unless it's the actual middle of the night, there's always at least a small romp post-potty.
Update:
Just took her out for this hour's break, and took your suggestion about the short run. We circled the front yard and neighboring property twice, and she peed out on the far side of the neighboring property, so we had a puppy party and took a run around a couple blocks. What I'd like to communicate is that the faster she pees, nearer the house, the longer/more fun workout we can have, but clearly I'm not imparting that idea in a way that's clicking with her. If she pees right away, we can pack up in the car and go somewhere fun for a real workout. If she spends twenty five minutes not peeing and then reluctantly peeing in the neighbor's yard, we only have time for a two-block circle jog. -
Yeah, I wouldn't want to have to deal with that scenario either. Is there anyone else in your home that can take her out after daylight in the event that you must leave early? Just a very short walk to give her the opportunity to relieve herself?
On occasion I have to take off well before dawn, and rather than disturb my sleeping dog and husband, I hire a dog walker to show up a bit later to give Perry his morning constitutional. As this isn't a regular issue, it's a relatively cheap & easy solution. (Perry will pee readily enough in the backyard, but pooping is another matter!)
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Well, my husband can manage it if necessary, I'm just more frustrated about not building a reliable elimination routine. I'd like to be able to start doing real work with her at some point, and if she's unreliably housetrained, there will be many places she's not welcome, one of which is in my car.
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Hopefully this is just a passing phase, and as she matures she will grow out of it. I do think that putting too much emphasis on something she is resisting can lead to difficulties, particularly as it isn't something you can control. A bit like pushing too hard when toilet training kids.
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I'm sure you're right; whatever the reason, she does not understand why I want her to pee in the yard. I'm no fan of arbitrary rules myself, so… I figure that most times she is getting a workout in the morning. If she refuses to pee on a short relief walk once in a while and has to hold it in her crate for a few hours, well, I guess we all have to learn to live with our choices ;0).
I do hope the car peeing thing was a passing experiment. Otherwise she won't be traveling uncrated, and it's too damn hot and muggy here to ride in a crate half the year. -
I do hope the car peeing thing was a passing experiment. Otherwise she won't be traveling uncrated, and it's too damn hot and muggy here to ride in a crate half the year.
I think this is one where you could adjust your behaviour to hers. If she has peed before the car ride, no crate. If she hasn't…...well, why take chances? (some always crate their dogs for transport, and it can be safer, if less comfortable, for the dog. My guy rides in a "hammock" strung between the front and back seats, and seems to like that just fine.)
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That's exactly what I mean. If I'd like to take her somewhere and she's refused to pee that morning, either she rides in a crate, if it's cool enough, or she doesn't go if it's not. If she relieves herself, she can be belted in when it's too warm for a crate, but I won't give her the opportunity to pee on the seat again if she's being stubborn on the ten minute pre-ride pee-run.
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What's funny is that most people assume if you have a male, you just take him to the nearest tree. That theory simply didn't work with my first boy…...he was the one that inspired my haiku.......he could hold out as well as any girl if he wasn't "in the mood". My current boy is no problem most of the time, but he does have his moments! Basenjis can out stubborn most breeds I have worked with, and it seems it is usually about elimination issues. At least with poop you have a shot at inducing the behaviour you are looking for, but not so much with pee!
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She is definitely an adventure. We just played some training games for dinner and she modified the "stick 'em up!" into walking on her hinds and waving both paws like she's directing traffic ;0). This is where I start thinking about teaching her how to use that to close doors, and my husband wonders WTF I'm doing teaching the basenji to open and close doors ;09
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my husband wonders WTF I'm doing teaching the basenji to open and close doors ;09
You do have to be careful of unintended consequences, for instance, teaching a cat to flush the toilet can result in rather high water bills! A friend has a GSD who is self taught to open doors, which means there is no place in the house that she cannot go! Fortunately she has yet to master locks…....
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I did wonder if I could teach her to use a toilet. I even thought about getting a toilet lid and cutting an outhouse hole in the middle, so she'd have a better platform. But since I can't even get her to pee in the yard… ;0)
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Ours can be pretty obstinate about peeing as well. We brought treats to give to them when they went and then we would shake the can a bit to let them know we had them. Eventually they started associating the sound from that to peeing. Once we realized that, we started doing it right as they peed and it worked even better.
