@nomrbddgs:
None taken!
But, I do have a background in animal behaviour-and your right! I tend to have an orderly and calm household. I see the signs before they get large. They're not afraid to fight each other at all. My heeler and my B got into an argument the other day over a toy. I take the toy away-they have nothing to fight over-end of story. My problem would be if I raised my voice/hit dogs. I don't believe in any of that. Order is the day and I AM the boss. Even on cranky days.
Arlene
Yep, my degree is in animal behavior also, and I train dogs for a living (a meager living though it is!), and we have a fairly calm household, I am the boss (or, is that just plain bossy? ….just ask my son and husband )...and I still have bitches living here that cannot, and will not get along.
I have clients that I will help as much as I can get their dogs to tolerate each other enough to live together...but I honestly tell them "it may not work, it may work for awhile, or until the next fight" IMO, you can only manage behavior for so long...if you suppress issues of status among dogs, they WILL wait until you aren't present to settle it....again, my opinion, and my experience.
Sounds like you and I handle things the very same way, though If you are going to fight over a toy, it disappears!