rockinmommy-we got fleece lined collars at ALL HOUNDS. I like their policy. If your dog chews up his collar they replace it for free :D Check it out!
http://www.allhoundsapparel.com
And the lady majestic martingale collars uses satin to line her collars…aahh soft :)
http://www.majesticcollars.com
Good luck!