My Male was devastated whenever I went away. Moping and not eating. We decided to make it a holiday when I went away and Max got extra walks,longer play time, special chewie
and special toys that were only brought out when I was gone. No saying "Oh poor baby" "its okay" or anything sad. Only happy and happy voices and lots of love. It worked!!
I just went through this with my boy and I call it Dogheimers. If you are okay with most of the behaviour then bu a bunch of Pee Pads and spread them all over. There is no magic pill or potion for this. Love her and enjoy her as long as you can.
You may have to make a VERY tough decision soon.
When Chakka had her Anal glands removed there was a large wound with stitches at her butt.
We had to wash it 3 times a day.
I stuck her in the kitchen sink and ran warm water over her anus. With a soft cloth I wet and patted it to get all the poop and crusty blood off. She was fed treats as she stood there.
Thick baby wipes work well too...unscented