Chloe update: We have her scheduled to be spayed next week. The vet did not do any blood work. He thinks the spaying will help and he will do the blood work-up just to make sure all is well. He says that she has taken advantage of all the love & attention that I have given her. She no longer sleeps in bed with us. I have been trying to distance myself as far as the only one giving food, treats, walks, etc. We call her name when she is asleep to try to wake her before we start moving aroung. She has still had a few episodes but we do see a little bit of a difference. A little is better than none at all.
Thank you to all of your replies. My husband & I discussed all of them and they were very helpful. THANK YOU !!