@zande Thank you, Sally. Oh yes, they can be really cheeky and smooth in the way they try to stretch the boundaries 😉
I am happy that it looks like I have found someone who will be happy to look after him even if he remains intact (many daycare businesses do not...and the one he was at up until says they will not take him again till he has been done - their loss!) - we will meet up with her in a week's time to see if all is doable 🙂

Take care,
Kjersti & Cosmo