Debbie,
I can't even believe what is happening on this thread. It is what it is though. I explained the circumstances related to Dugan, (the dog.) I was willing to place the him for the owner. I left messages on his phone as to why he did not email me pictures and such. Because he did not return my calls after a while I thought maybe I misunderstood him and he wants to sell the dog. Which I would not have agreed to incidentally. Since this forum all came up for me yesterday I thought this morning perhaps he needed to get rid of him right away. Maybe I am at fault if that was the case and I did not understand him. I did offer to take him back if he was going to bring him to the pound. I thought he and I had an understanding. He wasn't demanding me to take him back but offering me first choice. I understood his dilemma and was willing to help as best I could under my particular circumstances, and, which incidentally would have worked out fine for everybody. Someone who wanted a Basenji and was fit to own one would have got one for free. I would have fulfilled what responsibility I thought I had, and the owner would have his problem solved. Like I said maybe he thought he was going to sell him and failed at it. I did advise him against the idea of trying to do that, but I don't know since he never called me or emailed me back.
I was taken completely back when BRAT called me in what seems like 6 months later asking me to take the dog. In my mind I had all that time to place the dog and now I was being put on the spot. I told the gentleman at BRAT that I would help place him. He very tersely refused using some wording that I thought was kind of weird to reject my offer. I see you are charging $250 to place him. Obviously I could not help you do that. That is probably close what I sold him to the owner for in the first place.
Our verbal agreement with people who have our dogs has been thus. Under many circumstances we will take the dogs back and refund the money within two years. After that we will take them back under certain circumstances without a refund unless we are at fault. I was living up to that agreement. If you or people on this board don't like those terms that is tough. We do not make any money selling these dogs. I doubt very few Basenji owners do. All people who breed and sell basenji's are not in the same economic circumstances. That is the real world. To say we cannot enjoy doing what we are doing because we cannot do what people who are in completely different economic circumstances can do is bogus. I do not expect people on this forum to understand that though.
Dan Martinovich