One thing that I have learned in life is to accept that things are not all black or all white. Life is shades of gray and just because someone sees a different shade of gray than you do, it doesn't mean their shade is right or wrong, its just different. ~ Robyn Dubbert
Also, as they are so cat like, folks don't understand their not "listening". So the corrections get harsher and harsher.
Education is the key for folks…until they do, we will have many dogs in the wrong homes.